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Dancing in gym class

saber101

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For the next month, my gym class is taking a dancing unit. We get to do different types of dancing like the jive and the two step and what not, and then at the end of the class its just free club style dancing. And during the club style dancing, the girls just go form a little pocket in the middle of the dance floor and the guys sit out and dont dance with them! Anyways, theres some pretty hot girls there, and i was wondering if you have any tips to help me use this situation to my advantage.

P.S: I'm not the greatest dancer
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hey, if you are learning to do all these dances, and you can feel the time, just get in the middle of those girls, and just rock out to the beat. Don't give a sh** what those other guys think; they might try to make fun of you so that you can feel like a duche, but they would just be jealous. Don't do any jumping crap or whatever, just teach yourself some chill dance moves and get in there and take every one of them.
 

The Comeback Kid

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hahaha I would die in that class - I can't dance. Luckily, in my school's gym class, Seniors get first pick for every "block" all year (we have 8 blocks with 4-5 activities to choose from each block). That means I get ping pong, basketball, handball and golf (driving range) all year, which is pretty sweet! Unfortunately, there is no dancing one, cuz then we'd get to laugh at all the Freshman, who get kicked out of almost every "block activity" they want to join.

Anyway, as for your situation...when you feel confident, dance with them! Maybe get a friend to do it too if you wanted. But obviously, if no other guys are dancing, the one way to make this to your advantage is to dance with them (if they're free dancing or w/e...not square dancing).
 

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DAMN man, I wish I had ur gym class! =D

I'm assuming that the "club style dancing" is freak-dancing! Dude,
just get your butt and get sandwiched between those girls bro! Freak dancing has NOTHING to it; I was nervous the first time I did it, but it's all just rubbing against the girl and moving ur hips with the girl's hips with the music. In addition, holding the girl(s) hips, legs, neck, while club dancing is good too.

It's better to demonstrate, but get in there and just shake it like there's no tomorrow.

And remember, the wallflowers in the gym that laugh and make fun of you are just jealous because they don't have the balls to do it. You're the man. Go freak dance.
 

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Boner da Stoner

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I so wish I could teach you how to have fun on the dancefloor

go into the middle of all the girls

grab each on consecutively and dance however you want

if you CAN'T dance, make sure they know it, use huge moves that look retarted and make you laugh inside when you do them

If you can dance but just want to fit in... mirror the girls

If you can dance, than dance

but having fun is why I go on the floor, or to show off, or to grab a chick when the bar is closing and I'm tired of bull****
 

Phat

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wow lol... Guys im going to upload a few DVDs for u to watch that will teach u how to dance. PAYCE
 

immrtlwun

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Bring on the vids man. I think almost everyone here could use some help in the dancing category, myself included.
 

Phat

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yeh i think we all need to learn how to dance.. Well when i order these dancing DVD's ill rip them right away. and upload them so u can download them.
 

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Boner da Stoner

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lol a whole day and nobody even mentioned freak dance...

are there any real dancers here? Or just guys who say do this do that, spin and do a pirouette?

nah, just dance vids... think any guys on here are going to actually stand there and go through all of the dancing without ANY feedback? that is why dance LESSONS are needed, 1 group effort will bring these guys way past a whole DVD dance video that they are going to watch while sitting down.
 
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