"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dancing Bible

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So you wanna dance eh?
At a club or at a school you can't go wrong.
Now here are my pickings of the best dance threads.

Inner game to get you in the mindset
The Dance
extra reading
Have a fun time and enjoy yourself!
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just learned how to salsa dance the last couple of weeks, man this is fun when you get into it and have a hot partner to show you the moves. I danced and salsa'd(is that a word) for 5 or so hours new years eve until I was so tired we had to stop at 5:30 in the morning. Gotta love clubs in mexico tourist towns!
 

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I don't think you can learn to dance from those videos.

The only way you can learn to dance is to dance. Dance by yourself, or with chicks at bars... doesn't matter... the more you dance the better you get. It's that simple.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Importance of Dance game

Dance Game by Asian Playboy

wanted to throw in a quick blurb of the importance of Dance Game.

First of all, dance game is a huge demonstration of value and sexuality. It really sets you apart from the circle of lamers. You don’t even have to be really good, just good enough to make the GIRL look good dancing with you.

I myself only know a few moves, but I can mix it up a lot and match it with what the girl is doing and it actually looks like I know what I’m doing. The only ones who can tell that I’m only using basic movements are the guys and girls that are actually any good.

Secondly, it’s a great opportunity to isolate and physically escalate. You don’t want to stay in high energy mode too long. Once you feel like escalating, SLOW HER DOWN. Then take her hands, place them on your shoulders (having her hands locked behind your neck), and SLOW DANCE. **** the high energy music, you’re creating a very intimate, dominant frame where it’s US versus THEM. Great time to kino and kiss.

Finally, it’s just good for you physically and your body language. Especially with hip hop dancing, which requires both upper AND lower body movement. You need muscles in your torso, arms, and legs in order to do a few moves like “popping” and it gives you a more finely controlled, toned, yet relaxed body language beyond just dancing.

Basically, you can use dancing to open up girls on the dance floor (I don’t use that method myself) as well as pulling girls to the dance floor and then upping the physicality.

Another method to open with dance, which sometimes I’ll use, is when girls are off the dance floor and kind of just bebopping to the music, not fully dancing but feeling the dance energy and sexuality. As I’m walking by, I’ll kind of be nodding my head (while I’m smiling of course) and make a motion with my hands (and thusly my upper body) that’s in tune with the beat. Usually the girls will then assume that I can dance, smile at me, and comment. Roll from there.
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