"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dancing as an opener. Good or Bad idea?

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Its been a habit of mine to go clubbing with friends(mainly guys) once or twice a week for the past 6 months. Ive never actually just gone up to a group who werent dancing and attempted an opener. If anything Im out on the dance floor trying to get as many dances as I could and if possible, get to chat up the girl i happen to be dancing with. Now I dont recall anyone mentioning if dancing(immidiete) kino was ever good or bad as opener. What do you guys think?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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if you like dancing, it's totally fine as an opener though if you want to escalate anywhere, you're gonna have to open your mouth sooner or later

an opener is just the doorway to an interaction and as soon as you get some convo going, it ceases to matter. there are no rules to an opener other than it should be effective, and in FR's they've ranged from simple ("hi") to wierd (Ross Jefferies yellin "STOP!!!")
 
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My best friend is THE best dance floor seductionist I have ever known! He has pulled 9s and 10s from being a great dancer and guess what? He's not very good with conversational seduction but he makes up for it in the kino department.
 
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