"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dancing as an opener. Good or Bad idea?

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Its been a habit of mine to go clubbing with friends(mainly guys) once or twice a week for the past 6 months. Ive never actually just gone up to a group who werent dancing and attempted an opener. If anything Im out on the dance floor trying to get as many dances as I could and if possible, get to chat up the girl i happen to be dancing with. Now I dont recall anyone mentioning if dancing(immidiete) kino was ever good or bad as opener. What do you guys think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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if you like dancing, it's totally fine as an opener though if you want to escalate anywhere, you're gonna have to open your mouth sooner or later

an opener is just the doorway to an interaction and as soon as you get some convo going, it ceases to matter. there are no rules to an opener other than it should be effective, and in FR's they've ranged from simple ("hi") to wierd (Ross Jefferies yellin "STOP!!!")
 
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My best friend is THE best dance floor seductionist I have ever known! He has pulled 9s and 10s from being a great dancer and guess what? He's not very good with conversational seduction but he makes up for it in the kino department.
 
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