"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dancing.. a success!

mastacheef

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last night i went to a surprise little birthday party with about 20-30 people most just friends and at most maybe 2-3 available girls... very depressing :down: so to the success part of the story, some hip hop was playing and some of the girls were dancing and none of the guys were dancing with them so i took the initiative to just dance and grind with all of them (a lot of fun when drunk) i even got sandwiched between 3 of them. towards the end of the night one of the girls i've hooked up with was all over, i obviously believe this is because of the dancing with other girls because she was kissing me then resisting her self from me saying "you were dancing with them" but she kept kissing me anyways, then after everyone left she dragged me in her room and i got to sleep with 4 girls in the bed (not fvck tho, i wish ha) but i feel accomplished enough and decided to share my night with everyone :D

EDIT: i was ignoring her the whole night till she was all over me towards the end of the night
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Stéphane

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You should of made a move girls don't bring you in there bed to sleep over. They want to f*ck. Yeah samething happened to me too, but I was a total AFC back then I couldn't tell if a girl was interested even if they grabbed my c*ck.
 

War Against Betaism

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Good job. I just went to a party myself last night, I only got one number though because everyone else was drunk off their asses.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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