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Dances- Grinding to Make-out

iCandy

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Hey guys,

So I'm a senior and the last dance of my highschool life (excluding the prom) is coming up. Before I ask you DJ's my questions I'm gonna give a brief breakdown of how I am in the dance floor.

Basically, for me, THERE IS NO SPECIAL TECHNIQUE to get the girl to start dancing with me. What i'd do is I'd just grab them around their stomach area from behind and start rubbing it lightly. If they don't resist I consider that as an IOI and escalate to get closer. And to be honest, I've NEVER been rejected yet so far.

Anyways, the way I'd escalate is I'd put both my arms around her. Sort of like a backwards bear hug. I do this to show my dominance over her. And the grinding and all that jazz would begin. This would go on for about a song and it would end. Needless to say, it gets VERY hot!!!

Now what i want to do is take this to the next level and get to the makeout. And since this is my last year in Highschool it's safe to say that I'm willing to do whatever.

I've read a few tips here and there such as:
-breath in her ear
-brush your lips against her neck and ears
-spin her around to front grind
-etc.

I'm wondering for all you DJ's out there your techniques to get from grinding to make-out. And if it's field tested or if it's just an assumption.

THANKS
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

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Kamikazi1231

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I usually skip the back grind and go right into the front grind. It's easiest when following a slow song and just not letting go. Usually though I'll just stare at their eyes and just kinda dance in and take their waste. If they show the normal body language that says "take me now".. like exposing wrists then you can move closer. Now just get her hot enough with dancing and kino(pretty damn easy when you're grinding) to kiss her. Do the other two things you mentioned in the post too.
 

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read my field report :D hahaha weird coincidence that as soon as I finish writing that, I fall upon this thread :bigup:
 

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backgrind is much more fun for me... anyways you can do even more crazy stuff than making out if she knows how to back that ass up... just makeout with her whilst you're behind her
 

six-foot AZN '05

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Theres like a kissing post going around. Go read that and do the same stuff except while dancing. Theres no set technique, and if there is I haven't found it yet, but if you stop thinking and let your instincts take over it usually works out. Logic gets thrown out the window! :)
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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iCandy

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hey guys thanks for the replies.

I know how hot it gets in the dance floor cause I've been there many times.

I just want a to find a nice tecnique... more like a step by step to get from ass grinding to the makeout.


And where's this kiss post that you're talking about? What's the thread title?
 
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