"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dancefloor game?

Black.Magic

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Hey guys, keeping it short and sweet this time.

Say a girl dances up to you on the dance floor, like actually moves several metres to dance in front of you, what's the procedure? Never been a grinder myself and I kinda miss what transitions the grinding dudes make. Lol, "grindr"

Anyway so do you like grab her a$$ straight up or what? lol Even better when two of them come over and dance with eachother like 1foot in front of you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Zion

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It's so hard to explain sh!t like this man. It's like explaining how to kiss or how to phuck. Just do what feels you want. If your gut says grab her ass ,do it. If not , don't.


Sometimes I immediately start making out with her if she come in close to dance. Other times , I just dance with her. Not retarded grinding , but fun dancing - and later move in to kill. Do whatever dafuq works for you. Grinding is pretty retarded IMO.So yeah,generally , if she starts to grind I just turn her around ,get real real close ,look her in the eye, smirk and go for a makeout. If she's gonna dryhump her ass on my d!ck , I really don't see how she's gonna reject dat wild make-out. Know what I'm saying ?
 

Black.Magic

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Yeah I know what you're saying. Pretty silly thread I guess, but you know these girls do come to the clubs with boyfriends/afc orbiters then do stuff like this... To clarify though they don't actually grind up on me but they do get in my personal space. Turning them around is a good tip though, I'll try touching them on the shoulder then maybe try light arm kink or something. All this $hit is so foreign to me! Must have slept through the lectures on this basic stuff
 

TheException

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To clarify though they don't actually grind up on me but they do get in my personal space.

Plausible Deniability brother. Rarely is a girl going to come up and just start humping you(or even asking to dance). Afraid of being labeled a slut you see.

Grinding is an essential part of my college game(Im on campus). Its all confidence. They get in your viscinity or give you a look and its game on. I just walk up to them, say one line and say "Lets dance" while grabbing her. From here its easy to get a makeout if your any good of a dancer. #close or f close when the lights come on and its wam bam thank you mam.
 

zinc4

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use to i only did dance floor game.....briefly put your hands on her hips and start dancing behind her and then dance to the side of her a little ****y funny like and then when she tries to grind spin her around and kiss her...she will either be receptive or she won't...no big loss either way
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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