"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

dancefloor etiqeutte??!?!?

zemaj

Don Juan
Joined
May 14, 2006
Messages
55
Reaction score
0
OK - So I was in a club the other night. dancing away. and on the dance floor I saw this amazing girl. I instantly liked her. and she was dancing with her friend (another girl). and I noticed as the night went on that they kept checking me out. and I was occasionally checking them out. BUT they kept playing this weird cat and mouse kinda game. For example, they would be on dance floor. dance for a bit, brush by me, or move near me. and then walk off. and then come back a bit later. It was very bizarre, and because they kept doing this, I couldn't find a way to "quickly" make a move or anything. and eventually they disappeared, I guess they went.

SO my question is, how would of been the best way to approach these girls.

I mean, loud music, so I cant talk properly which is what I prefer doing.

She was dancing with a friend, so I dont want to be rude and interrupt them.

and also, what if the one I liked is not the one that liked me. and also, How can I get dancing with girls on the dance floor, without either saying "hey, would you like to dance" and risk sounding like a dork, OR by rubbing myself up against a girl and touching her ass. (which I dont like anywayz) and risk a girl slapping me.

Sorry for this long long question. but replies much obliged. :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Lifeforce

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2003
Messages
2,091
Reaction score
18
Location
SWEDEN
Bounce your butt into hers while you make EC =)
 
Top