"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dancefloor etiqeutte??!?!?

zemaj

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OK - So I was in a club the other night. dancing away. and on the dance floor I saw this amazing girl. I instantly liked her. and she was dancing with her friend (another girl). and I noticed as the night went on that they kept checking me out. and I was occasionally checking them out. BUT they kept playing this weird cat and mouse kinda game. For example, they would be on dance floor. dance for a bit, brush by me, or move near me. and then walk off. and then come back a bit later. It was very bizarre, and because they kept doing this, I couldn't find a way to "quickly" make a move or anything. and eventually they disappeared, I guess they went.

SO my question is, how would of been the best way to approach these girls.

I mean, loud music, so I cant talk properly which is what I prefer doing.

She was dancing with a friend, so I dont want to be rude and interrupt them.

and also, what if the one I liked is not the one that liked me. and also, How can I get dancing with girls on the dance floor, without either saying "hey, would you like to dance" and risk sounding like a dork, OR by rubbing myself up against a girl and touching her ass. (which I dont like anywayz) and risk a girl slapping me.

Sorry for this long long question. but replies much obliged. :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lifeforce

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Bounce your butt into hers while you make EC =)
 
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