"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dancefloor etiqeutte??!?!?

zemaj

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OK - So I was in a club the other night. dancing away. and on the dance floor I saw this amazing girl. I instantly liked her. and she was dancing with her friend (another girl). and I noticed as the night went on that they kept checking me out. and I was occasionally checking them out. BUT they kept playing this weird cat and mouse kinda game. For example, they would be on dance floor. dance for a bit, brush by me, or move near me. and then walk off. and then come back a bit later. It was very bizarre, and because they kept doing this, I couldn't find a way to "quickly" make a move or anything. and eventually they disappeared, I guess they went.

SO my question is, how would of been the best way to approach these girls.

I mean, loud music, so I cant talk properly which is what I prefer doing.

She was dancing with a friend, so I dont want to be rude and interrupt them.

and also, what if the one I liked is not the one that liked me. and also, How can I get dancing with girls on the dance floor, without either saying "hey, would you like to dance" and risk sounding like a dork, OR by rubbing myself up against a girl and touching her ass. (which I dont like anywayz) and risk a girl slapping me.

Sorry for this long long question. but replies much obliged. :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lifeforce

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Bounce your butt into hers while you make EC =)
 
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