"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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snoop8

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hey, ok so wat kind of dances do girls like to dance? also how do u dance? lol i need to learn how to dance, so teach me people! lol thank u!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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08aisaac

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Well you can probaly get some advice from books but once you start going to clubs then dancing is really iportant for meeting people and I hear stories of girls going home with guys just because of how good they can dance. Of course at school dances it seems that they try to get a club scene started so learning how to funk is great. Disc Jockeys can dance and you can probaly learn from them.

Or you can google it. Yeah but learning how to get in the groove of your dancing partner is really useful. And slow dancing. these days girls seem to put their arms around your necks guys grab their wastes. OMG let me tell you how much of a neck ache you will get. lol. So I guess you would do everything everyone else is doing. I tried to teach a girl to dance once and she was really stupid soshe stopped. lol. But I would rather just groove. and no wild crazy head rocking moves. lol. but I guess you can probaly learn how to dance yourself. lol
 

immrtlwun

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check out dance.net they have videos and descriptions of how to do all kinds of different dances.
 

snoop8

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ok, well do u guys think its a good idea if i ask my gf to teach me how to dance? lol
 

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sure... go for it, once you get it over with youll know how to dance and be able to dance with lotta girls. BEsdies, you can use lotsa kino when she teaches you... know what i mean? :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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