"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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amnbyrd

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Just got back from this country style club. Long story short Ive been in this town for about 4 months and theres not much to do but after going to this club tonight and seeing all the hot girls Ive decided to take up dance lessons. Tonight sucked since I didnt dance but I figure after I learn it'll be a much better experiance. It seemed so easy-if you can dance just go up to any hot girl and ask if she wants to dance-if so cool if not it wasnt that big of a deal seeing how there were so many other hbs there. So now Ive come across something to do with my spare time and I'll be hitting up the clubs regular soon after. That and Im sure my game will go way up after I start dancing.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mintxx

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i shudder to imagine the kind of girls who would knowingly go to a 'country style' dance sober
 
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