"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dance soon and i need advice

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today was my second day of school and i found out that homecoming is in a month which is a month sooner than i thought. i have my eye on this incredible girl that i want to take and i was going to use the month i thought i had to get to know her a little better and let her get to know me before i asked, however i dont have as much time and i still really want to take her so should i just ask her as if i know her better or what. sorry if this seems like a retarded post but im one of those guys that needs to get a second opinion on everything. and if you could give me a few ideas on how to go about it that would be great because it takes awhile to get my creative juices flowing and all of you probably have better ideas than me
 
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Yeah go for it. Even if she rejects you, you'll at least have the satisfaction of knowing you tried, as opposed to not asking and never knowing what would have happened because you didn't do anything.
 
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thats what i was thinking i just didnt know if she might be more comfortable if she got to know me a little better but thanks for reassuring me
 
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why would you want her to get to know you better?

Let me ask you this. Do you want to go with her as friends, or with possibilities of more?

If you want to go as friends, then by all means get to know her before you ask. Because, if you do get to know her (which is slang for "befriend her"), that's all you WILL go as.
If you want to go with possibilities of more, then grab your balls and just ask her. It's a misconception that a girl will not want to go a dance with a guy she doesn't "know well" first. Girls want dates (to dances especially) even more than guys do - and in most cases will accept the first half-decent guy who has the balls to ask.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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yea i definately like the idea of being more than friends. and going stag isnt an option for this dance because i go to an all guy school and this is homecoming so in order for a girl to get in she has to be invited and im not about to take one away from one of the football players. but thanks for the advice you guys are pumping me up for this which is what i wanted
 
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