"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay so this girl asked me to her school dance. Dont know anyone there. She said afterwards we can get drunk in the back of my van and she says we'll *have some fun*

What should i be expecting here?
Anyone know dance prtocol, like how to start grinding with some random chick (maybe i could make her jealous)
Should i go buy condoms?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dude, get condoms and be prepared, its gonna be a good night.
 

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Mjazz said:
Dude, get condoms and be prepared, its gonna be a good night.
woot:rockon:

okay so how about during the dance. is there anything i should know about grinding and stuff (im kinda a noob at this stuff)
 

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Lol, high school dances, I remember those days.

I'm guessing you guys are 16-18, freshmen drinking and doing 'things' is a depressing though, 14-15 is still childhood imo.

Get ready to grind. Your job during the night will be to raise interest level and turn her on. Personally, I would get bored with just one chick, so also be prepared to dance with other girls, esp. the hotter looking friends of the chick who invited you. Makes her jealous. Be ultra-friendly to everyone, meet a bunch of people, guys and girls. Being social = higher value, and you get to meet some folks that you'll hopefully keep in contact with. Make sure you enjoy yourself though. The chick already wants to bone you, just make sure you don't mess it up by being boring/putting a damper on the general mood.

Near the end of the night, grind with her. Do some dancing kino. Run your hands along her thighs. Breathe on her neck. Feel her hair. Go crazy. Make out on the dance floor. If you get to that point, just go back to the van and screw, make sure to wrap up.
 

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yea im liking all this good feedback!

i guuess ill try to meet as many people as i can. Ill be the only black person there so i dunno if thatll be an advantage or disadvantage

Recently got braces so that might mess up my game a bit. prolly shouldnt eat her out then right?

Also how abouts do you go grinding with a random chick? you don't ask her to dance do you?

soory for the buttload of questions but like you but like you guys said, i gotta be prepared:woo:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Flabbergasped?

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saber101 said:
yea im liking all this good feedback!

i guuess ill try to meet as many people as i can. Ill be the only black person there so i dunno if thatll be an advantage or disadvantage

Recently got braces so that might mess up my game a bit. prolly shouldnt eat her out then right?

Also how abouts do you go grinding with a random chick? you don't ask her to dance do you?

soory for the buttload of questions but like you but like you guys said, i gotta be prepared:woo:
Your race probably won't matter, this chick wants you so I'm pretty sure her friends won't care about ethnicity.

Braces are only an issue if you make em one. Just go there to have fun. I dunno about eating her out tho, to be honest I never had braces when I did that.

I generally avoid grinding a random chick, it's a little sketchy. Most of the time, you can get away with just giving them solid eye contact and smiling. If she smiles back, grab her hand(s), pull her towards you, grab her hips, and you're off.
 

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alright....
1. It's OK to smack the girl's arse once during the night while dancing(after a bit of dancing with her)
2. yea smile and get eye contact and u can get a girl to dance (that's how I danced w/10 or 11 different ones during homecoming)
3. when slow dancing, dont be afraid to explore her back and sides with your hands, it's pretty good kino.
----tell us how u did.
 
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