"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jerry Maguire

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I'm just getting in to it after previously only listening to alternative music
Recommend me some please
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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IIO, Armin van Buuren, Tiesto, Prodigy, Dj Icey, Paul van Dyk, idk Daft Punk maybe? just throwin some out there they're not all the same genre though what exactly were you talking about?
 
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For starters, if you want to listen to (arguably, in my opinion, from what I've heard) the best electronic music album ever, find yourself a copy of Deep Dish's GU021 Moscow (CD 2). It is highly varied, spanning many genres, and is perfect as perfect is. It's one album which no matter how many I have listened to it, it remains fresh as the first time.

(And no, I'm not Deep Dish)
 
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Check youtube for "sneakerz" maybe you'll like that too!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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