"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dance - major success

adpreston1988

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I was debating whether or not to go to Coming Home tonight (since I didn't have a date), but I decided to head over their with one of my friends. At first I didn't really recognize anybody and like everyone was already grind dancing and I couldn't find somebody to dance with. But I finally noticed some girls in my grade and I got some courage and approaced them. I started grinding with one of them while the other was dancing in front of her and I had a blast. After this, I went up to another group and grinded with two more girls. One of whom I slow danced with as she put her head on my shoulder and kissed me on the cheek. This was really my first big success at a dance since beginning high school (and I'm a senior). Basically, freshman-junior years I only went to 2 dances and didn't really have the courage to dance with anyone. Now I love grind dancing and I can't wait until prom. This site definitely gave me some balls to ask girls to dance and I am really happy at the moment. Now, any advice on interacting with the girls I danced with in school on Monday??
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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iCandy

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hey props on your success man.

I was in a very similar situaitionn as you. I remember through my high school life i never went to any dances cuz i thought it would be lame and i wouldn't dance with anyone.

Then i went to one earlier this year at the beggning of my seniority and man i had a blast. Grinding is like the closest thing you can come to sex ;)

Anyways, ever since that day I've went to every single dance my school had and it almost always never seems to fail.

Too bad i didn't start going when i was still a freshman. Oh well. Now i only have two dances left and i promise to let go of my ego and just have as much FUN as i can!

Props to ya again man.. I know exactly how it feels!
 

six-foot AZN '05

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Dances are off the hook. So much stuff going on. The only thing I'm worried about now are the girls attacking me to get a dance with me.

Like both of y'll I found out that Homecoming was actually fun. This year I messed up a little bit because I didn't see that signs that a new girl was into me even though we grinded for hours. Yeah, she left with one of my guy friends so I don't feel that bad.

I also found out that some lame girls just never want you to start DJing. This one girl who I had a crush on for a while tried to let me off with a lame excuse. Don't you just hate it when people still remember your AFC days. Man! those were the worst days of my life.
 
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