"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dance - major success

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I was debating whether or not to go to Coming Home tonight (since I didn't have a date), but I decided to head over their with one of my friends. At first I didn't really recognize anybody and like everyone was already grind dancing and I couldn't find somebody to dance with. But I finally noticed some girls in my grade and I got some courage and approaced them. I started grinding with one of them while the other was dancing in front of her and I had a blast. After this, I went up to another group and grinded with two more girls. One of whom I slow danced with as she put her head on my shoulder and kissed me on the cheek. This was really my first big success at a dance since beginning high school (and I'm a senior). Basically, freshman-junior years I only went to 2 dances and didn't really have the courage to dance with anyone. Now I love grind dancing and I can't wait until prom. This site definitely gave me some balls to ask girls to dance and I am really happy at the moment. Now, any advice on interacting with the girls I danced with in school on Monday??
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hey props on your success man.

I was in a very similar situaitionn as you. I remember through my high school life i never went to any dances cuz i thought it would be lame and i wouldn't dance with anyone.

Then i went to one earlier this year at the beggning of my seniority and man i had a blast. Grinding is like the closest thing you can come to sex ;)

Anyways, ever since that day I've went to every single dance my school had and it almost always never seems to fail.

Too bad i didn't start going when i was still a freshman. Oh well. Now i only have two dances left and i promise to let go of my ego and just have as much FUN as i can!

Props to ya again man.. I know exactly how it feels!
 
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Dances are off the hook. So much stuff going on. The only thing I'm worried about now are the girls attacking me to get a dance with me.

Like both of y'll I found out that Homecoming was actually fun. This year I messed up a little bit because I didn't see that signs that a new girl was into me even though we grinded for hours. Yeah, she left with one of my guy friends so I don't feel that bad.

I also found out that some lame girls just never want you to start DJing. This one girl who I had a crush on for a while tried to let me off with a lame excuse. Don't you just hate it when people still remember your AFC days. Man! those were the worst days of my life.
 
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