"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dance lessons

rushing dude 123

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Hey i am going to go out for some night game in a night club, but i can't dance and i am just wondering what sort of dance classes would i have to go to that would make me look good in a night club if any, maybe just seeing what everyone else is doing and customize it to ur own style. I did a search for dance classes in area, but there is latin, tango, salsa and i am not sure what ones good for that field, so if u guys cud jus lead me in the right direction i would really appreciate it......thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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War Against Betaism

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All you have to do is follow the girl when you're dancing, unless you want to do a solo act and like break or buck. If you want to do a solo act, learn how to buck, or if you really want attention without any dance lessons at all, get hyphy.
 

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Learn Crank dat soulja boy and a bunch of its youtube variants. It'll help you not look lost.:cool: I remember when Ciara's 1,2,step was hot and I didn't know how to do it at all. Needless to say, I hid in a corner until the song was up so that I wouldn't get negative social value.:eek:

Otherwise, copy off of those on the dance floor, or any good stuff you've seen on dancing with the stars or so you think you can dance!;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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