"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dance dance dance^who will win

malombalom

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I got this situation in my dance school.
There is one cute gal, she’s interested in me, she’s trying to establish eye contact even when we are not dancing. There was a Latin party, I also invited my girlfriend (by the way my girlfriend and that chick go to the same college, my girlfriend is 2 years older and we are about to part). We danced a lot, I danced with many many chick in the club.
Hot chick knew that I with my girlfriend – she saw us. So, when I danced with hot chick I flirted with her and asked her if she has a boyfriend – she said No, so she asked me, I said Yes. Later that night hot chick left the party lil bit earlier, I danced till the end of the party with hot chick’s female friend. Later I gave her a ride (cuz my girlfriend left the party only after one hour being there – she said it is of no interest to her).
But there is one guy who is also interested in that hot chick. He danced her few times in the party. He is from advanced group in the school but often visit ours (my and hot chick) beginners group. He always eager to dance first with her (we very often change partners in dance school – that is a must, teachers tell us when to change). And guess what? Yesterdays after dance class was over I saw, imagine who? That guy in her car with her! It look like she were giving him a ride.
We stopped at the traffic light I opened window in my door and waved to her, I was smiling. First who saw me was that guy, he was shocked, and then she saw me, she looked surprised, I waved to her and there goes green light and we went in different directions.
Definitely that guy someway got in her car)) He dances lil bit better than me. But I bet that I can do that soon.
My next dance class is tomorrow, so I decide to tease her.
What would you recommend in that situation? How should I approach her? I mean she knows I got a GF, should I ask her out and should I ask her about that guy ( I think I actually shouldn’t) Any insights?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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tell her you wanna dance in her pants
 

malombalom

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Just imagine how big that pants should be, cuz I'm gonna dance to the fullest. I'm waiting for the next party, I will dance with gals as usually and dance the chick down to the pants.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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