"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dance Classes?

DJCorleone

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Read a few posts on the site mentioning dance classes as a good way to improve yourself etc and was interested, looked up some local dance classes, any recommendations? Learning the tango interests me but I don't know much about dances, anyone have any experiences, with any form of dance?
Cheers
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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DJCorleone

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just bumping because im real interested, had a gal saying she wants to learn so would have someone to go with...haha

nothing to lose really but just wondered if there were any advice...?
 

Maxtro

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Couples dancing is really fun. My favorites are Salsa and Swing. Tango feels very sexy but it's also difficult.

Dancing like many things in life takes a lot of time and practice to get good.

I highly suggest taking a dance class at a college. Last taken semester I took Salsa and this semester I took Social Dance which is (a little bit of Swing, Waltz, Tango, Two-step, Cha-Cha and Fox-trot.) Swing, Waltz and Tango were my favorites. Next semester I'm retaking Salsa so I can get good at it.
 
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