"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dance Classes?

DJCorleone

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Read a few posts on the site mentioning dance classes as a good way to improve yourself etc and was interested, looked up some local dance classes, any recommendations? Learning the tango interests me but I don't know much about dances, anyone have any experiences, with any form of dance?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJCorleone

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just bumping because im real interested, had a gal saying she wants to learn so would have someone to go with...haha

nothing to lose really but just wondered if there were any advice...?
 

Maxtro

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Couples dancing is really fun. My favorites are Salsa and Swing. Tango feels very sexy but it's also difficult.

Dancing like many things in life takes a lot of time and practice to get good.

I highly suggest taking a dance class at a college. Last taken semester I took Salsa and this semester I took Social Dance which is (a little bit of Swing, Waltz, Tango, Two-step, Cha-Cha and Fox-trot.) Swing, Waltz and Tango were my favorites. Next semester I'm retaking Salsa so I can get good at it.
 
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