AlexLefty1
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Lol, means you guys will have a bigger advantage as you grow up. Woot woot!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Damnt the hs forum really died off
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
yungballa
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why is that?
AlexLefty1
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Because the fewer people that know about game, the bigger the advantage is for you
yungballa
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lol you got a point. i find myself coming on this site less and less.
but with teenage girls i dont see much game being needed. if they think you're cute, then you're basically in as long as you know how to socialize with them and do some flirting. high school is very simple.
AlexLefty1
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True dat. But that's like all social circle game. HS is just a very concentrated social circle game. Though, that's not to say that cold approach skills aren't valuable in that sort of environment
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I loved the HS forum when I first came here in 2007. The HS Bible was revelatory for me. Most of the links are dead now, which is a crying shame!
You know what, fvck it, I've only thought of this whilst typing this out, I'm gonna resurrect the HS Bible, revamp it & improve it. It worked better for me than the full DJ Bible as it broke down each section of DJ'ing into easy to understand chunks.
You know what, fvck it, I've only thought of this whilst typing this out, I'm gonna resurrect the HS Bible, revamp it & improve it. It worked better for me than the full DJ Bible as it broke down each section of DJ'ing into easy to understand chunks.
AlexLefty1
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Do it bro!
yungballa
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I learned way more from the HS bible from the actual DJ bible. I think what you doing would be great.
I think as long as you improve yourself and try to rise above in your social circle you should be fine in high school, compared to that fat nerd potato couch who goes through high school with nothing but bad memories. The priority for me iin high school is not status, or relationships.. But your grades and fun.
AlexLefty1
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Those are great priorities! I went to high school 4ish years ago, and I wish my priorities were like that at the time
@AlexLefty1 @yungballa I have FOUND the fvcking bible! Internet digging has paid off, I need to ressurect the links to format the bible in the current format.. however if you click on this.... http://web.archive.org/web/20111019174702/http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=33715
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
AlexLefty1
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Which bible? The regular one is available in the main forum I think@AlexLefty1 @yungballa I have FOUND the fvcking bible! Internet digging has paid off, I need to ressurect the links to format the bible in the current format.. however if you click on this.... http://web.archive.org/web/20111019174702/http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=33715
The HS bible, it is stickied in the HS forum, but all the links are dead. @AlexLefty1
AlexLefty1
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Ahh.. Get to it then!
Skyline
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I think it's because me, @KingofPuss, and NorwegianDJ stopped posting here once we graduated to be honest.
This section was a lot more active 2 years ago.
This section was a lot more active 2 years ago.
amazingswayze
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major key
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Very true. I wish the world was as simple as high school. I wish I knew the things I do now back then. If I could go back to high school now knowing what I do now, it would've been so much easier, and could've dominated even.
I remember I had like 5 or 6 different girls actually ask me out in high school, with 3 or 4 of them being among the hot, popular cheerleader crowd. At the time, I never even worked out; I was just a really skinny and nerdy, if cute and overly young looking kid.. imagine what I could do if I actually tried working on my apperance. But I used to be really shy and anxious back then and didn't know how to handle it. One of them even sent me a rose for Valentines, but I didn't do anything constructive about it. Another one who kept bugging me for months was decent in high school but turned out to be super hot in college; I tried making a move after it was too late and have been kicking myself for it since lol.
I will admit I didn't like the cliquey-ness of high school though. That I could've done without. Even though I wasn't really in any particular "group" and got along okay with jocks just as well as nerds and emos.