AlexLefty1
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Lol, means you guys will have a bigger advantage as you grow up. Woot woot!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Damnt the hs forum really died off
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
yungballa
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why is that?
AlexLefty1
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Because the fewer people that know about game, the bigger the advantage is for you
yungballa
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lol you got a point. i find myself coming on this site less and less.
but with teenage girls i dont see much game being needed. if they think you're cute, then you're basically in as long as you know how to socialize with them and do some flirting. high school is very simple.
AlexLefty1
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True dat. But that's like all social circle game. HS is just a very concentrated social circle game. Though, that's not to say that cold approach skills aren't valuable in that sort of environment
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I loved the HS forum when I first came here in 2007. The HS Bible was revelatory for me. Most of the links are dead now, which is a crying shame!
You know what, fvck it, I've only thought of this whilst typing this out, I'm gonna resurrect the HS Bible, revamp it & improve it. It worked better for me than the full DJ Bible as it broke down each section of DJ'ing into easy to understand chunks.
You know what, fvck it, I've only thought of this whilst typing this out, I'm gonna resurrect the HS Bible, revamp it & improve it. It worked better for me than the full DJ Bible as it broke down each section of DJ'ing into easy to understand chunks.
AlexLefty1
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Do it bro!
yungballa
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I learned way more from the HS bible from the actual DJ bible. I think what you doing would be great.
I think as long as you improve yourself and try to rise above in your social circle you should be fine in high school, compared to that fat nerd potato couch who goes through high school with nothing but bad memories. The priority for me iin high school is not status, or relationships.. But your grades and fun.
AlexLefty1
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Those are great priorities! I went to high school 4ish years ago, and I wish my priorities were like that at the time
@AlexLefty1 @yungballa I have FOUND the fvcking bible! Internet digging has paid off, I need to ressurect the links to format the bible in the current format.. however if you click on this.... http://web.archive.org/web/20111019174702/http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=33715
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
AlexLefty1
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Which bible? The regular one is available in the main forum I think@AlexLefty1 @yungballa I have FOUND the fvcking bible! Internet digging has paid off, I need to ressurect the links to format the bible in the current format.. however if you click on this.... http://web.archive.org/web/20111019174702/http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=33715
The HS bible, it is stickied in the HS forum, but all the links are dead. @AlexLefty1
AlexLefty1
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Ahh.. Get to it then!
Skyline
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I think it's because me, @KingofPuss, and NorwegianDJ stopped posting here once we graduated to be honest.
This section was a lot more active 2 years ago.
This section was a lot more active 2 years ago.
amazingswayze
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major key
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Very true. I wish the world was as simple as high school. I wish I knew the things I do now back then. If I could go back to high school now knowing what I do now, it would've been so much easier, and could've dominated even.
I remember I had like 5 or 6 different girls actually ask me out in high school, with 3 or 4 of them being among the hot, popular cheerleader crowd. At the time, I never even worked out; I was just a really skinny and nerdy, if cute and overly young looking kid.. imagine what I could do if I actually tried working on my apperance. But I used to be really shy and anxious back then and didn't know how to handle it. One of them even sent me a rose for Valentines, but I didn't do anything constructive about it. Another one who kept bugging me for months was decent in high school but turned out to be super hot in college; I tried making a move after it was too late and have been kicking myself for it since lol.
I will admit I didn't like the cliquey-ness of high school though. That I could've done without. Even though I wasn't really in any particular "group" and got along okay with jocks just as well as nerds and emos.