"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Damnit ex is talking to me again

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Yup, I obviously still sometimes feel pain about it, and am still somewhat getting over it, but for the most part I am feeling ok and only really down when I think about it. I'm not going to go into details about why we broke up... But it looks like she wants me back, of course after a month or so of no contact. She is a stubborn girl though, and doesn't want to give me the power by outright saying she wants me.

Hell part of me wants to get in the car and drive to her right now, but luckily I have been here long enough to not do that.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Too late, she says she is horny and wants to be friends with benefits plus she sounds a little drunk. Tap and run anyone? ;)
 
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I would, especially if you haven't had any in awhile!
 
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Yep, I did. We got along great, she was going on about how much she missed me, the sex last night was really good.

Minor problems.. My parents hate her, so she can't come here much. Her parents hate me so I can't go there much. Heh. Oh well, I'll take no strings sex for a while, might as well. I'm actually not surre if she wants to get back with me or just wants sex, oh well I'll just go with the sex and see what happens.
 
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