"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Damnit ex is talking to me again

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Yup, I obviously still sometimes feel pain about it, and am still somewhat getting over it, but for the most part I am feeling ok and only really down when I think about it. I'm not going to go into details about why we broke up... But it looks like she wants me back, of course after a month or so of no contact. She is a stubborn girl though, and doesn't want to give me the power by outright saying she wants me.

Hell part of me wants to get in the car and drive to her right now, but luckily I have been here long enough to not do that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Too late, she says she is horny and wants to be friends with benefits plus she sounds a little drunk. Tap and run anyone? ;)
 
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I would, especially if you haven't had any in awhile!
 
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Yep, I did. We got along great, she was going on about how much she missed me, the sex last night was really good.

Minor problems.. My parents hate her, so she can't come here much. Her parents hate me so I can't go there much. Heh. Oh well, I'll take no strings sex for a while, might as well. I'm actually not surre if she wants to get back with me or just wants sex, oh well I'll just go with the sex and see what happens.
 
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