"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just finished looking through my yearbook from high school and realised how much I missed out, I feel like sh*t. I shoulda hung out with people, went to parties, talk to all the girls I wanted to talk to but never did.

I wish that I had found this site when I was in my freshman or sophmore year in highschool. It woulda made a huge difference in my life then as it has done already. I woulda been apart of everything I wanted to be apart of, have more friends, close friendships, and even relationships.

It just sucks to me that I finally become the man I shoulda been in high school after I graduated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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High school is chump change compared to college...
 
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Just be glad you're realizing this now and not when you're 80 years old.
 
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Originally posted by LJC
High school is chump change compared to college...
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hell no... not at my college at least. My college is not your everyday college, it's a art college. Filled with koreans/japanese/chinese people as the majority. None of that fun/cool stuff that you have in public colleges.
 
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Originally posted by Griffith
Just be glad you're realizing this now and not when you're 80 years old.
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Wouldn't make a difference since it's 4 years I can't relive.

And what sucks is that I wasn't even a social outcast. My friends were the popular kids, I was popular. I just didn't allow myself to go out to parties, I didn't have the confidence to talk to new people (girls), and I never thought to actually hang out with my friends to build closer friendships. Also I had no game what so ever.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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man, you're only 18 years old. instead of being upset, be excited of the fact that you still have your ****ing twenties to go through! i didn't find this until way after college. a lot of dudes say something along the lines, "Man, if only I was this way in high school..." actually, didn't you say something like that? hell, I'm guilty of it too. instead of thinking what could have been, think about now and the future; after all, we can't do **** about the past.
 
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