"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Damn, why is it that being taken just makes all these girls want me more?

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Why does the universe have to work this way?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's nothing more than pre-selection bro. If a girl sees you with another girl, jealousy ensues and makes other girls think "What does she see in him that I don't?" Or "Why the f**k is she hanging out with him?" Or "What the f**k did he have to offer to her?" I must know, he's got to have something interesting about him or he wouldn't have a lot of value. And the fact that a guy's value is raised quickly and easily by having a woman with you is something that makes you more desirable in a woman's eyes. They say the best way to get a girl is to get a girl. That explains some guys going to clubs with their sisters, cousins, and sometimes, their mother.

Case closed. Hope this helps.
 

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that happened to me too when I was in a relationship. Then after the relationship they were no where to be found. Then they came back and that's when I realized it was all in my mind. It seemed like there was none but that was because I was looking with closed eyes. When I was in a relationship it seemed like an abundance because I didn't want any at all so the few that would pop up seemed like a lot
 
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