Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Damn why aren't there DJ groups?

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WTF man. I was thinking about all the sh!t I've learned on this site. My life has done a 180 in the past...well almost year now.

I hear alot of motivation coming from this board. People are motivated to get out and DJ. Motivated to get out and run, lift weights, play sports. Motivated to improve their lives. Lord knows how I've improved on my own... but I'd like it if there was a local DJ group.

So yeah... I'm sure they exist...anyone know where I can look for some DJ's in my area that are on THIS board?

Oh yeah...Im from Alabama. Peace!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bro, there is a Wingman forum here, go check if people are from your area.
 

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Because I don't play well with others.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There are. We've got a group of guys here in Orlando and we meet up for Sushi semi-occasionally.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
There are. We've got a group of guys here in Orlando and we meet up for Sushi semi-occasionally.
Speaking of, DISH just sent out an invite for us to try a new sushi place. I'm down like a flat tire. I believe it's on the 25th.

It'll be good to see the boys again. I still owe you a quail egg . . .
 

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Interestingly enough - my current roommate and I met on the wingman forum. We got along and said WTF and I moved into his condo. We go out sarging and are pretty good wings.
 

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Woa. Yeah I sent messages to the guys on the list. Unfortunately theres only two from Alabama...

I tried recruiting some friends. I was mostly laughed at when I told them about this site...but fvck if I cared. Now they always ask me for advice.

Unfortunately my closest friends are pretty much married or they're stuck in a LTR.....

Well I guess I'll try getting up with my two homies that live over an hour away!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mind_Body_Soul said:
Interestingly enough - my current roommate and I met on the wingman forum. We got along and said WTF and I moved into his condo. We go out sarging and are pretty good wings.

Damn, nice job! I wish I had that going on here.
 
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