"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Damn, talk about AFC, this takes the cake!!!

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Guys, my best friend seriously needs to be ***** slapped. I have tried to talk sense into him but here is the story in a nutshell..and no this is not me I assure you lol.

My best bro has been talking to some chick on the phone for the last year whom he met on the net. 2 weeks ago, his sister calls me and tells me he packed his **** and drove to Montana to see her! Yes some girl he has never met! He lives here in Los Angeles normally, he drove 19 hours to see her!! I also find out that he bought her a cell phone and paid for her phone plan starting 7 months ago!!!

He is coming back to LA this week, I am gonna have to seriously rag on him lol.

Is this the most pathetic thing you have heard or what?

Btw, he is a decent looking guy, not ugly or anything.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wow...that guy is asking to be controlled by her. You better slap some sense into that guy! The whole buying everything for her at this early stage is bound to be used as a bank.
 
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Originally posted by Bill-RiZeR
Wow...that guy is asking to be controlled by her. You better slap some sense into that guy! The whole buying everything for her at this early stage is bound to be used as a bank.
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Indeed. Thing is I think I saw a pic of her..he says its not her but I think it is. This girl is ugly as hell to make it worse.

Seriously I would not do her if she payed me.

As for being controlled, you are right, not to mention he is broke as hell and spending on her.(before he even saw her!)
 
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I don't care if she looks like Pamela Anderson it's still wrong to do crap like that...and bw please take the time to read and answer my situation with "Understanding the Girl" thread. Much is appreciated.
 
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doh...... online is NOT the way to go. what does he plan to get out of this girl anyway? long chats on the phone or over the net arent sexy. he cant sleep with her across the country. and it isnt worth all the gas and time to drive all that way and see her for a week or 2. i dont care how great her personality is. people are different online, she probably acts and talks different in real life. its just stupid all around.

u should definately knock some sense into him when he shows up.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Ace of Flames
doh...... online is NOT the way to go. what does he plan to get out of this girl anyway? long chats on the phone or over the net arent sexy. he cant sleep with her across the country. and it isnt worth all the gas and time to drive all that way and see her for a week or 2. i dont care how great her personality is. people are different online, she probably acts and talks different in real life. its just stupid all around.

u should definately knock some sense into him when he shows up.
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I agree but I doubt he will listen.

He has done **** like this before but not as far. He met a girl online and drove out a few times a month to visit her near the border of Arizona! Another in Fresno.

I dont know what his deal is. Los Angeles has some of the hottest women in the world and he goes to Montana? Wtf
 
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Originally posted by pimpdatass
Guys, my best friend seriously needs to be ***** slapped. I have tried to talk sense into him but here is the story in a nutshell..and no this is not me I assure you lol.

My best bro has been talking to some chick on the phone for the last year whom he met on the net. 2 weeks ago, his sister calls me and tells me he packed his **** and drove to Montana to see her! Yes some girl he has never met! He lives here in Los Angeles normally, he drove 19 hours to see her!! I also find out that he bought her a cell phone and paid for her phone plan starting 7 months ago!!!

He is coming back to LA this week, I am gonna have to seriously rag on him lol.

Is this the most pathetic thing you have heard or what?

Btw, he is a decent looking guy, not ugly or anything.
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If he went down there to get naked with her, and so she could perform fellatio on him, and allow him to climax in various body cavites. hell, thats one thing. But if he went all that way to LJBF, wow.
 
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Re: Re: Damn, talk about AFC, this takes the cake!!!

Originally posted by JackPrescott
If he went down there to get naked with her, and so she could perform fellatio on him, and allow him to climax in various body cavites. hell, thats one thing. But if he went all that way to LJBF, wow.
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Even if it were for just sex, he could have gotten a hooker for the money he spent driving out there lol.
 
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When he gets back slash his tires, burn his wallet, break his computer and beat the hell out him...

Then take him to a strip club so he can see a hottie in person...

Then get him drunk and take him to a club....make him talk to ever woman in the place until he realises that nothing good comes from Montana...except Jesse Ventura....



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What an idiot! Make the woman come to you if its an online thing......God I want to hit your friend upside his thick head......


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Unless he comes back with 0 seamen(yeah thats right,a empty bank) this is a COMPLETE waste of his time.
 
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he's probably gettin' used

and if he never comes back, it's probably some psycho pedophile kidnapper
 
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