Damn, question about "first date"

[handle]

So I'm going to this really cool thing tomorrow night and if I bump into this one girl the plan was to get the number and bring her to it (it's gonna be sick, gallery opening with an awesome dj, totally free and really interesting.)

But I don't see her around, so whatever. but if I bump into her tomorrow or tonight, should I ask her to this thing anyway? It makes it seem preplanned if I do that. Not smooth like getting the digits a few days before and then waiting a bit and callin like "so I remembered I'm going to this sweet event, come along, dress nice."

Respect the "get the number, then wait a bit" rule or not? Other thing that sucks is that I can't play a waiting game, and I'm busy most of the rest of the week so I can't just stall, you know?

 

[Solomon]

lol @ you going from step one to step 8

Damn playboy

First off get to know her, get the #'s and worry about the date later. You are waaaaaaaaaaaay ahead of yourself right now playa. I like the waiting a couple days thing, thats a good look, but going right away could backfire unless she wants to see your pillow if youknowwhatimean

 

[handle]

nawww man, I know this girl, already danced with her n stuff on nights out, lots and lots of mutual friends
I guess I should be a little more patient, but she's digging me right now and it won't stay the same

 

[Big B]

If you see her mention what you are doing. Pause for a second then come back with telling her that she should go with you. If she says ok then say let me get your number and I will call you with all the details on such and such day. Then she is expecting your call and you don't have to worry about the couple days you usually wait. Just play it cool and not so much like its gonna be a serious date. Then just have fun getting to know her and work on the kino escalation. Good luck man.

 

[handle]

well, here's the update: didn't bump in to that girl, so took another one instead. simple as that.