"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Damn Obesity Crisis!!!!!!

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I'm sick off all the fat chicks around!!!!! Its literally getting out of hand. It seems every other freaking girl has a gut. I don't get it, girls have so much motivation to get in shape, but they don't do it! It's not that damn hard. My standards for weight aren't even that high and i dont mind a girl with curves but a beer belly is not an attractive curve.

Now the skinny girls are in low supply and thus high demand which makes getting them even harder. I dont even feel bad anymore for fat girls, if anything I feel bad for me and all other guys who actually take care of our bodies but struggle to find a girl who does the same. There's so much information out there about how to get in shape and so many reasons to do it. I don't get it!!!!

I know this post wasn't very enlightening but I needed to vent. Last night I must have been hitting on 5 different girls who were all cute until i took off the beer goggles and saw that they had freaking guts!!! They all would have been hot if they would just lose some weight!!!!

Honestly, I'm starting to think I should move to Europe where the girls are not only easier and less stuck up than american girls, but skinnier. Go figure :mad:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A woman in America can be a total whackjob, a single mom, divorced 3 times, but if she is skinny she will still have a line of men to f/ck and one of them will be a sucker and marry her.
 

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I'm from Wisconsin. How do you think I fucking feel about it?
 

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Bluntmaster said:
A woman in America can be a total whackjob, a single mom, divorced 3 times, but if she is skinny she will still have a line of men to f/ck and one of them will be a sucker and marry her.

That's my ex!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I brought a fat girl over from Craigslist 7 months ago when I was drunk. She was slobbing on the knob 30 minutes after I met her, then she left and I never spoke to her again and ignored all her attempts to contact me. Last time I ever to that.
 

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f283000 said:
Yup I bet even a fat chick gets like 30 messages a day on POF and other dating sites.
Well you would know since you use POF to email the fatties with regularity. Fat people need loving too. :)
 

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I should have seen this coming (some of you saying fat chicks get guys and have no incentive to lose weight) but I was too upset with all the chubby chicks I met the night I posted to anticipate this.

Yes fat chicks can get ONS, have guys hitting on them and do get laid more easily than a lot of guys but like all girls they are also insanely insecure only more so. Even pretty girls get insecure over the littlest things, so imagine how a chubby girl feels. Also they are under a great deal of pressure from the media to be thin. Further most girls don't seek out sex to the extent of guys, which makes ONS and such much less valuable.

Every girl wants to lose weight, even the skinny girls im friends with get really sensitive when I call other girls fat (I called one of the jersey shore girls fat and they made a fuss about it) or make any joke even somehow relating to weight. Most girls don't lose weight because they are lazy, lack discipline, no nothing about nutrition and exercise, and yes are getting enough attention from guys to keep their egos satisfied. Still, there are plenty of incentives to not look like a whale or at least lose that gut.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kenny Powers said:
Every girl wants to lose weight, even the skinny girls im friends with get really sensitive when I call other girls fat (I called one of the jersey shore girls fat and they made a fuss about it) or make any joke even somehow relating to weight. Most girls don't lose weight because they are lazy, lack discipline, no nothing about nutrition and exercise, and yes are getting enough attention from guys to keep their egos satisfied. Still, there are plenty of incentives to not look like a whale or at least lose that gut.
To most women, the ONLY incentive to lose weight is to be able to gather up the best available man for them.

We've taken away that incentive by feeding into the "technology demon". It used to be a case where, generally speaking, women would gain weight AFTER getting married, because the overweight and obese women were being ignored by the general population of men.

Generally speaking.

Now, they are no longer as ignored.

Terms like "BBW" and phrases like "Big girls need love too" or "More cushion for the pushin'" have popped up everywhere as a guise under which males can now find it socially acceptable to "go out" with an overweight woman. Personally, I used to do it because I thought these slightly overweight women were better at sex. Why? I fell into the social conventions.

Ever since I've bettered myself physically, I'm past dating 5's and 6's and now can get the 7's+. I realized I was a fool for being so misguided.

But I see it still happening, women who don't care about losing weight because they really have no reason to. Just snap a few pictures, show some cleavage, and through trial and error, you'll find a guy willing and able and frustrated enough with the whole dating world that he'll fall for the BBW.

It's sad to see as well. I could never go back to the overweight/obese women. I like seeing a flat stomach and not see flab bounce around on a lady. And the media doesn't pressure bigger women into anything, the reality is that the media portrays women the way most men would like to see them. It's just that now American women have decided that this is discrimination.

"Oh, they discriminate towards fat people."

The truth is... society always has. Believe it or not, but in a world that's far less INpolitically correct, we now have to be nice to the woman who can't stuffing her face with Big Macs and Milkshakes. Why?

For many, it's not a permanent condition, and can easily be solved, unlike the color of your skin or your height or other unchangeable physical qualities. As long as men continue to seek these women out of desperation, they will have no need to lose weight or to look feminine or even act it. Unfortunately, we are to blame for hoisting up these women onto their own, largely grotesque pedestal.
 
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