"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Damn, noticed how weak i am

The_Mole

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i'm planning to get my arms bigger, but i can only do sets of 6-7 curls of 20 pound dumbells. thats how weird i look for a 5'10'' 150 pound guy

curls work biceps right?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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WORKEROUTER

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your a skinny turd. read what i wrote in "screw skinnguy.net: heres some FREE advice."

youll see why you need to stay away from db curls now.
 

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Take it from a reforming skinny guy...standing barbell curls will get you where you want to go faster.

But you'lll want to spend some time working tris too. Tricep=three heads, bicep=two heads. You'll get half again as much mass on your arms by working tris as you will working bis.
 

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Don't worry about how much you can lift. What are you a power lifter?

How does the muscle feel when you lift? Go for the burn. The pump. I see guys all the time lifting more than they can "properly". They use terrible form just to get the weight up. Use the appropriate weight for proper form. Proper form is essential to buildiing a balanced/proportionate body.

When you use a weight that is too heavy, other muscles come into play. Ones you don't intend on working.

Don't worry about #'s. Worry about how you look in the mirror...
 

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I have a 15lb DB. Thats all.
I can't join a gym as i have no way of getting there (i can't drive) plus i can't afford it.

can this 15lb DB do anything for me? & what are some techniques i can use to get the best out of it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sandista,

Yeah it is possible to get something out of a 15 pound dumbell but after you can do like 12 reps without a problem then it is pretty much pointless as far as muscle growth goes. You need to put a new stress on your muscles to switch it up. As far as joining a gym just invest like $200 for a bench with like 300 pounds of weights. That is what I recommend for a beginner just to get oriented for the first year or so. Plus you don't have to worry about getting to the gym or finding excuses about not going.

Mole,

The amount of weight you can lift doesn't matter much in my opinion. At least for me its all about how I look and how I feel about myself. At 150 and doing 20 lbs for 8 reps aint bad. That means you could probably get up 30's 5 times. Just continue to challenge yourself with heavier weights and more Volume.

Peace and good luck to both of you
 
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