"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Damn it!

Moneytalks

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Firstly, I want to explain the lay out of where I work.

There are 3 buildings. 2 are 100ft (approximately) apart and the newly bought part is 300ft from the closest building.

I'm normally a waiter in the 2 furthest buildings, they house the old hotel, restaurant and kitchens. The newly bought building is under refurbishment.

With me so far?

So I came out of the part under refurbishment and saw the chef that I like the look of about halfway between me and the kitchen. There were cars going and by the time I got across she was 75ft away from the kitchen, I decided to sprint to get a word with her. When I got there, I carried on running. WTF?!

Why did I do that?! I had no idea what I was going to say to her, I normally improvise those situations. I swear, I felt like kicking myself in the balls :confused:

Anyway, any tips to make sure I don't do that again?

Looking back, it was a good idea. I had paint in my hair and my clothes were covered in sawdust and plaster.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pua1989

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just say "Hey Whats your name?" and i think it would have been a good idea to talk to her despite being dirty..probably would have given you something to talk about
 
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