"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Damn it!

Moneytalks

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Firstly, I want to explain the lay out of where I work.

There are 3 buildings. 2 are 100ft (approximately) apart and the newly bought part is 300ft from the closest building.

I'm normally a waiter in the 2 furthest buildings, they house the old hotel, restaurant and kitchens. The newly bought building is under refurbishment.

With me so far?

So I came out of the part under refurbishment and saw the chef that I like the look of about halfway between me and the kitchen. There were cars going and by the time I got across she was 75ft away from the kitchen, I decided to sprint to get a word with her. When I got there, I carried on running. WTF?!

Why did I do that?! I had no idea what I was going to say to her, I normally improvise those situations. I swear, I felt like kicking myself in the balls :confused:

Anyway, any tips to make sure I don't do that again?

Looking back, it was a good idea. I had paint in my hair and my clothes were covered in sawdust and plaster.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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pua1989

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just say "Hey Whats your name?" and i think it would have been a good idea to talk to her despite being dirty..probably would have given you something to talk about
 
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