"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Damn it!!!!!

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Just an f'ed up story...

last sunday i was talking to this 19 year ol ex GF/friend of mine and we agree we should hag out.. but her boyfriend makes plans with her, fine , so I tell her cool since I am the side guy for f'ing..LOL

So yesterday evening she called me and says to come over to her dorm so we can chill.... So i drive 30 mins to get there she comes out gets in my car then I see a car with 2 guys and 2 girls rolling by slow se starts freaking out about those girls telling her boyfriend stuff about her..LOL So we drive of and in 3 mins. ring ring her boyfriend cal her cell but she doesnt pick up. she says "damn the timing of that call is no coinsidense. Then he texts her asking where she is, she lied and told him she is in a meeting for school...LOL But now she is freaking out more and more and saying she has a bad feeling and need to go back....

It seams the girls in the car called her boyfriend and told him she was about to leave with me which messed up my plan to f...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sucks dog, a thirty min drive for some and didn't get any because of some snitches.
 
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Sucks dog, a thirty min drive for some and didn't get any because of some snitches.
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YEH SEH WAS appolagizing and SHTI SAYING SORRY I HAD TO DRIVE SO FARE BUT SHE JUST DONT FEEL RIGHT.... She is a very cool girl, but damn young womens' friends have alot of power in their lives...

Any way I will give her some time then try again but next time it will be stealth..
 
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No offense, but it serves you right. You're driving 30min to see an ex GF? When my ex-gf wants to see me I refuse to goto her place- and she lives 5 minutes down the road. If she wants sex bad enough, she can come to my place. No strings attached.

Why are you going out of your way for an ex? In a sense you're attaching strings by going so out of the way to see her. There are plenty of fish in the sea and going back to your ex is just slowing down your pace. If she insists on coming to your place for sex, fine. Use her for sex. But going out of your way for sex from an ex is not healthy.
 
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WC2 said:
No offense, but it serves you right. You're driving 30min to see an ex GF? When my ex-gf wants to see me I refuse to goto her place- and she lives 5 minutes down the road. If she wants sex bad enough, she can come to my place. No strings attached.

Why are you going out of your way for an ex? In a sense you're attaching strings by going so out of the way to see her. There are plenty of fish in the sea and going back to your ex is just slowing down your pace. If she insists on coming to your place for sex, fine. Use her for sex. But going out of your way for sex from an ex is not healthy.
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i hear you but this is a special case cause she has no car cause she cant drive...LOL She is an ex from way way back who turned into a great friend with benefits (her PU$$Y is the best I have ever had).. I do have 3 other options but this is my special one who I dont see that often but when i do its great.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonGorgon said:
i hear you but this is a special case cause she has no car cause she cant drive...LOL She is an ex from way way back who turned into a great friend with benefits (her PU$$Y is the best I have ever had).. I do have 3 other options but this is my special one who I dont see that often but when i do its great.
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I feel you. Just be careful and don't get reattached. I've seen too many friends go down this road. There's such a thing as "protecting" yourself from falling back into vicious cycles. I just hope her pu$$y is THAT worth it.
 
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WC2 said:
I feel you. Just be careful and don't get reattached. I've seen too many friends go down this road. There's such a thing as "protecting" yourself from falling back into vicious cycles. I just hope her pu$$y is THAT worth it.
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Yeh i make sure that she is the only emotional on in the situation.... and her her stuff is close to perfect...LOL

I think maybe i need to also be careful of her BF since she said he is very jelous and controling...

I asked her if he might just show up looking for her.. and she said she didnt know but just had a bad feeling... I call that a yes...

i didnt want to push the issue so I dropped her of and asked her if she still wanted to chill she said yeh but now was a bad time... I told her ok we will just hook up when the time is right...
 
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Someone is gonna get his butt handed to him soon. Busted!!!!
Hahaha!

No seriously, maybe not in a fight, maybe the boyfriend will run you over hahaha!
 
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