Damn it, she got the upper hand

[Moofahsa]

**** has gone south in my LTR material.

I went from being the Don and calling the shots to fitting into "her" schedule with phone calls and texts. How it happened? I don't know, perhaps I'm a bit needy or something? Pisses me off because I feel weak about it, I don't think she is the type to do anything purposely and **** me over but yah anyhow.

It is a tad of a long distance thing, 100 miles but we spend a couple of days together a week. Shes totally into me and wants me to lead, but this phone thing pisses me off. She used to text me and ask me what was wrong and **** because I wouldn't answer...but now I find myself sitting by the phone feeling like an AFC....

Any tips? I'm not insecure I'm just wanting to regain control if that makes sense.

 

[Answers]

If its bothering you that much just tell her you need a bit more space!! Are you afraid of losing her? thats AFC!

 

[royaltyw]

Back off, stop texting and calling her. You want her to start feeling insecure about the relationship. You want to her start worrying about your interest level in her; get her mind wondering. Once the insecurity starts to set in, the text messages will start again.

She's 100 miles away, you need to keep her interested, keep things fun and exciting. Girls love to be bad, so make her do naughty things like send you pics from her phone, or if she has a webcam ask her to use it.

Personally, I would start focusing on girls that are closer. Those 100 miles will start to get old quick...

 

[KontrollerX]

Act distant towards her.

Thats what chicks do when they want behavior change or are considering trading you up after all.