"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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damn...I must be doing something right...

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Jaun_Don

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Things are looking very good for me at the moment, because I have decided to throw caution to the wind and taken chances

Met a girl off the internet on Thursday we went out for drinks,laughed a lot she said we had the same sense of humour and loves to laugh we... ended up kissing for quite a while, she told me I like the way you look at me...just spoke to her on the phone about an hour ago....seeing her again in the weekend.

Went dancing with friends on Sat Night and this girl I have only chatted with on the phone (sadly has a partner)...danced, flirted and ended up saying to me that if she wasn't in a relationship...she would be open to being with me because she said (and this is the 2nd time I have had a girl say this to me)

There is something about you and I just enjoy being around you...damnnnnn

and 3rdly...I am still seeing my FB and everything's cool but I don't tell her **** about the other girls.

...and I am talking to other girls on the net as well and meeting one of them later in the week.

I guess it's finally my time...So I am glad I went through all of the bull**** and to come out better for it.

Thanks for all the help and insight on here....I'm not bragging here just wanting to let everyone that things look really good.

awesome :cheer:


the only thing that annoys me is the girl that smashed up my CD's the other week...she didn't tell me she had a BF and niether did my best friend (female)...why?.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Jaun_Don
No props?

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Am glad for you JD, hope it works out and you find some satisfaction.

You have led us down this road a few times before and I think the members of this discussion forum are collectively waiting for the other shoe to drop :(

Good luck man!
 
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Originally posted by insidious
Am glad for you JD, hope it works out and you find some satisfaction.

You have led us down this road a few times before and I think the members of this discussion forum are collectively waiting for the other shoe to drop :(

Good luck man!
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Thanks man...I just met the wrong girls and have learnt from everything and I wake up every morning and saying to myself..."what's not too like?"

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Let's see...
  1. You're sarging successfully on the Net
  2. You're qualifying better thus meeting better women
  3. You recognize through increased confidence that you are making your way toward DJ-dom
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    Yeah, you can say that you are doing something right... :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Let's see...
  1. You're sarging successfully on the Net
  2. You're qualifying better thus meeting better women
  3. You recognize through increased confidence that you are making your way toward DJ-dom
    [/list=1]
    Yeah, you can say that you are doing something right... :up:
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  1. why thanks so much...One of them turned out to be a game player so she is Nexttttt...oh well good thing I have other options then isn't it.

    :D
 
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