"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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damn how the hell do you deal with conceited broads?

Dayum itz jee

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Some broads are so full of themselves Saying stuff like "Look at me who wouldn't want me" and all that sh!t.. I pull some CF stuff on them and sometimes that doesn't even work..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ignore them. Chicks like that will make it know to a guy if she wants him. Those guys will usually be someone sees as an Alpha Male. It's just up to that dude not to turn into an AFC.

Personally, I don't even bother with chicks like that. They have issues. But if you do decide to go for her, don't put her on a pedastool. She'll be at her weakest when she isn't around her support group of kiss-a$$ girls and AFCs. Finally, treat her like she's beneath you.
 

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I'm just trying to game this Solid hb8.5 but she's conceited as hell.. i dont even know how i could do with her.. with my tempur problem and all.. im just gonna Next she's not even worth my effort..
 

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Two things often work for me. First, be as indifferent as possible to their comment. Second, look to the motivation behind their comment.

In this case, you could have nonchalantly went on about your business, having a good time with people around you, etc. Helps to get you there.. I'll often tell myself "I don't need to do anything about xyz." I don't need to do anything about her conceit. Which is true. Someone pulls crap like that, she isn't acting friendly, and rewarding her is the last thing to do.

As for the motivation behind this comment.. hmm.. think about this. If she really thought "who wouldn't want me", then why does she need to ask others about this? Hmm.. seems she wants assurance, she's insecure, etc.

At any rate, if you can't establish a friendship with her, then don't try to advance romantically with her. Again, you don't need to do anything here. You don't need to convince her of anything.
 
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