"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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damn how the hell do you deal with conceited broads?

Dayum itz jee

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Some broads are so full of themselves Saying stuff like "Look at me who wouldn't want me" and all that sh!t.. I pull some CF stuff on them and sometimes that doesn't even work..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ignore them. Chicks like that will make it know to a guy if she wants him. Those guys will usually be someone sees as an Alpha Male. It's just up to that dude not to turn into an AFC.

Personally, I don't even bother with chicks like that. They have issues. But if you do decide to go for her, don't put her on a pedastool. She'll be at her weakest when she isn't around her support group of kiss-a$$ girls and AFCs. Finally, treat her like she's beneath you.
 

Dayum itz jee

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I'm just trying to game this Solid hb8.5 but she's conceited as hell.. i dont even know how i could do with her.. with my tempur problem and all.. im just gonna Next she's not even worth my effort..
 

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Two things often work for me. First, be as indifferent as possible to their comment. Second, look to the motivation behind their comment.

In this case, you could have nonchalantly went on about your business, having a good time with people around you, etc. Helps to get you there.. I'll often tell myself "I don't need to do anything about xyz." I don't need to do anything about her conceit. Which is true. Someone pulls crap like that, she isn't acting friendly, and rewarding her is the last thing to do.

As for the motivation behind this comment.. hmm.. think about this. If she really thought "who wouldn't want me", then why does she need to ask others about this? Hmm.. seems she wants assurance, she's insecure, etc.

At any rate, if you can't establish a friendship with her, then don't try to advance romantically with her. Again, you don't need to do anything here. You don't need to convince her of anything.
 
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