"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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redbullfbu

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ok i have a situation so im jus gonna be as detailed as possible.

im a junior and last year i had this thing for this chick and one of my buddies found out and told her(...) so she knew and it screwed up everything for me so i jus figured w/e who cares. couple weeks later she started IMin me and was flirtin BIG time with me like i mean big time it was blatant. me being the idiot i was at the time she asked if i liked her and i was 100% sure the girl wanted my nuts so i said a lil bit (idiot at the time) then shes like well i dont like u because we havent hung out that much and im like @!##!&#@!#! cuz i was 100% sure then she said we shud hang out sometime and i was like yea mabye then she got pissed that i jus like yea mabye and i told her it wasnt a big deal and jus gave up cuz i already screwed this 1 and theres so many girls to go get laid by. anyways lately she keeps crossing my mind and i found that weird, i havent talked to her like all summer when ever i'd see her in person we would never talk at all then today randomly in class teacher is givin a lesson she jus screams out my name i turn around and she jus does one of those stupid girl waves. i was like lol ok w/e i was to busy day dreaming about my game tonight. so i was jus like wats up and turned around so back to the point.....i find my self extremely attracted to this girl and know i could pull it off if. any tips? its kinda weird situation never had this with any girl...... im getting laid by like 3 other bangin girls but for some reason i want this 1.

thoughts?

btw that game tonight (v. football) like the whole town goes in my town our town is football crazy and apparently shes goin so i was gonna think about scopin her out if possible during pregame and talk to her but idk we'll see.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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redbullfbu

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if u read the whole thing it said i was currently getting laid by 3 girls. im not having girl problems its just this 1 girl cuz my buddy fkd it up last year
 
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