"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Damn gay dudes are aggressive as hell

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I was hanging out yesterday with some friends of mine at a local dive bar. There is a cool gay couple there who goes there all the time (they're married). Anyways, both of them hit on me constantly when I'm there. The one dude last night goes "Damn, how do you not realize how incredibly good looking you are??"


I was cracking up super hard. Why can't women be like gay men? All my dating problems would be over in a day If I was born gay.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should have given the guy a set of blue balls and walked away lol, if they were hitting on you, you must be a bit metrosexual :D
 

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Should have given the guy a set of blue balls and walked away lol, if they were hitting on you, you must be a bit metrosexual :D
slightly...I dress very nice

but I look heavily masculine in the face and body...which is the best of both worlds for what the gays like
 

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Last time I went to a jazz nightclub I had some fat gay guy try to dance with me. I just stared at him utter bewilderment and he walked off, lol. Then a chick stole my fez* and asked if she could keep it. Wut.

Also said chick kept teasing me with the fez, grinning at me and laughing and yet seemed totally disinterested in me when I went in to dance with her. One of those club nights where you have no idea WTF is going on.

*I was dressed as Aladdin at the time. Which probably explains the gay attention...hahaha.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No gay men are pvssy cats OP.... you are just in a weak azz frame..you sound light in the loafers too me.
 
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