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So I met this chick last Saturday night in a club. I approached her cause she was smiling at me. We talked for 15 or more minutes, had a good time and then she had to leave so I asked for her number, but she prefered to get mine instead... ok.

Today Monday, SHE texted me, and after a bit or rapport etc, I said to grab a drink on Wednesday or Thursday evening, to what she replied:

her: "hehehe :p I have to work during the weekdays so its almost impossible (sure...she said she just babysits...), but if it's ok with you we'll talk."

me: alright

her: :*

me: ;)


WTF?? I thought she would gladly agree, ??

Do I shoot her a text next Thursday to set something for saturday or sunday evening?
or do I wait for her to text me?
 
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The chick hit you up (positive signal) and then, when you asked her to get a drink on one of two days, she responded back with a counter-offer (positive signal). So..... what's the problem here?

Instead of responding with "alright," it would have been better to reply with a counter-day to what she said: "hmmm, the weekend might work - I'm busy on Saturday but Friday or Sunday would work for me, how about u?"

At this point, if she gave you the ol' "we'll talk" line, you could take it as a possible sign of low interest... but again, because your response didn't counter her response, we don't know. Your best option? Hit her up Wednesday with "Hey, I found this new place that has great drinks, we should hit it up this weekend - I'm free Friday and Sunday, what about u?"

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U didn't even make out with her or have sex...Of course a probable flake...no surprise.. get used to it...escalate as much as possible in club game...
 
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Harry Wilmington said:
The chick hit you up (positive signal) and then, when you asked her to get a drink on one of two days, she responded back with a counter-offer (positive signal). So..... what's the problem here?

Instead of responding with "alright," it would have been better to reply with a counter-day to what she said: "hmmm, the weekend might work - I'm busy on Saturday but Friday or Sunday would work for me, how about u?"

At this point, if she gave you the ol' "we'll talk" line, you could take it as a possible sign of low interest... but again, because your response didn't counter her response, we don't know. Your best option? Hit her up Wednesday with "Hey, I found this new place that has great drinks, we should hit it up this weekend - I'm free Friday and Sunday, what about u?"

Hope this helps!
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Hi Harry.

where did you see that she counter-offered? she just said that she cant during the weekdays because of work...
 
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zinc4 said:
U didn't even make out with her or have sex...Of course a probable flake...no surprise.. get used to it...escalate as much as possible in club game...
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I thought about kissing her but I felt social pressure, I mean, I dont usually do club-game but that night since she was smiling at me and she looked so good I could not resist it and went to talk to her, this is a big accomplishment for me, trust me.
Then there were her friends around, and my friends behind me looking at the interaction (motherf-uckers).
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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But you need to understand these interactions are routine to her....a girl who goes clubbing and has social media on her phone.....your only chance is to escalate... a number in itself is virtually useless in club game unless she thinks you look like brad Pitt....even then....you have to always try and go for the lay in club game...at least try and escalate a walk.out of the club and make out.... drink and have fun at clubs and this should come natural... clubs are about having fun and getting laid...don't approach them like u would day game...
 
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Why would you shoot her another text after she insulted you?

You: Let's go out for a drink

Her: We'll talk instead

You: Ok

What the fvck are you doing? You are letting her dominate you with this text conversation also when she wanted your # instead of getting her #. I'd forget about shooting her another text she basically told you she doesn't want to grab drinks.
 
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