"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dammn Im an idiot

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I havent been too lucky in the girl department lately but ive been thinking of changing lots of things... Especially after this morning

I was at school and I was walking along this area to get to these stairs to go up to the research lab that has a handful of computers to use. As i am approaching the stairs, this pretty cute girl i noticed was checking me out for a good 5 seconds.. She was sitting by herself too in a little private area (GOD IM SUCH AN IDIOT) I proceed upstairs to the computer area and sit down at one. Well my area had all the comps filled except for the one directly across from me, and the other areas had like nobody at them.. This same girl comes up the stairs into the lab and sits directly across from me!! I could've sworn i could see her peaking over her monitor to see me, cuz i kind of slouch in the chairs.. there big chairs :rolleyes: Anyway, I go and do homework at a table then she proceeds to exit.. (GOD DAM IM STILL AN IDIOT) I have a feelin she was there for me..but who knows, She was there today so she must have the same class days as I do..

This girl was really cute and im going to try and hunt her down at school next week and fill you guys in.. Man i am dumb
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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keep looking for her and try to have six or more of these episodes a day, but ya gotta approach and close in. some of em ya hang back until ya get another sign
 
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Use it as a lesson and learn from it. You are only an idiot if you don't.
 
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SaucyBoy said:
Use it as a lesson and learn from it. You are only an idiot if you don't.
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Ya il use it as a lesson, but i aint givin up.. Im hunting this chick down first thing Monday
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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