"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

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The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dammit! Cracked a finger bone

Silex

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Heres the bad, the worse and the horrible...

Bad:

Cracked a finger bone while closing my car door. Now I gotta wear a splint for the next couple of months... How do I sarge with a ****in splint?:confused:

Worse:

This is my second to last semester in college. This semester has yeilded some of the finest prospects I have ever crossed paths with. Now that this finger thing happened, how the hell am gonna spit game at these girls?

Horrible:

Kinda off topic, but I screwed up this past friday..

Here's the skinny,

HB hmm 7.00001 works at my job that I've been "mackin" too, now for about 2 semesters. Really, Ive just been alternating between:

shreds of interest
****y-funny
social-proof

Our interactions:

Mostly flirtatious, mostly fun... at least for the first semester.

Recently I have been getting alot of bull**** tests from her this semester (2nd) , Shes been literally alternating between hot/freezing cold (totally flirty with kino one day - telling me to leave/or ignoring me the next)

Here is the kicker, this past friday we went to get lunch and come back to my job. While we were eating (and in front of other people in tbe math help center) I asked her a question *jokingly* about a co-worker that I knew she was interested in (He looks like a surfer dude)

She began telling me about how she.. and I'm quoting here:

1) "Doesn't date guys at work, she just sleeps with them."

In reference to The SURFER guy who works at my job:

2) "...I stopped being a wuss and I made my move."

3) "Doesn't discriminate, will do vanilla all the way to coco puffs. " (I'm black, shes white...)

4) "I did the whole track team, BUT I'm NOT a tramp. "

:eek: I'm sorry but... :crackup:

The weird thing is that she proudly says these kind of things in public, in front of other girls even. I mean, I like a girl who is straight foward and stuff but god damn! I don;t know how to deal with this kinda stuff when she starts talking like that (maybe thats the problem)

Now all that **** she's talkin don't mean a damn thing... why? She has my phone number, i have hers. Shes has NEVER called me too hang out (I haven't called her either mind you)... Not even once.

Yet shes proudly tells me about how she ****ed my co-worker and that she made the move on him??!!... On top of that, I'm getting mixed signals with the whole cocopuffs, make your move bit...

So I guess my question, wtf should I do with this girl... make a move, or just continue to ignore her/social proof her (bring other chicks, hit on other chicks in front of her etc...) like Ive been doing for the past 2 semesters?

By the way, my job is a goldmine for social proof, I work as a math tutor and you would not believe how many hot young girls come in and out needing help with their math homework!
 

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Sargeholic

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I actually met one of the best girls I ever dated while on crutches. Consider your splint a peacocking item and it will give you a conversation piece when she notices it.

You aren't disfigured. As long as it doesn't hinder your movement (or destroy your confidence), it shouldn't effect your game one bit.
 

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2 semesters worth of social proof and game PROBABLY isn't enough.

You should try running the elvis script on her, aswell as some NLP.

-no.

stop being a homo.

2 semesters of gaming a girl and you haven't even hung out with her outside of work?

how about you try this. its a little left field so bare with me.

"hey what you doing wednesday night? come over and check out this new dvd i got, its so funny."

then make your move, and bang this wh*re.

she says to you "i'm a wh*re" and you say, "what should i do next?"

dude. bang her. don't fall in love with her.

-but my finger is in a splint.

DUDE. I saw an add for that movie murderball (i think it was called) about wheelchair rugby. anyway, one of the main guys had a banging girlfriend.

do you hear him saying

"i'm in a wheel chair, how do i run game?"

you've got a broken finger? who gives a ****. no girl is going to reject you for a broken finger.

stop being a homo.

stop making excuses.

bang the *****. and meet some new girls.

don't make it take 2 semesters worth of effort to bang these ones.
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Originally posted by HalfAddict
Yeah you did..


And wear a hat when you do her, you don't want the gift that keeps on giving.
Damn right HalfAddict! Glad got this **** off my chest...


:woo:
 

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Definetly don't worry about a finger splint, man...if anything you might get bonus points for it! I'll tell you why
1. It makes you look like your athletic or at least do something dangerous every once in awhile. Therefore, more interesting.
2. Which finger is it? I'm sure you can make jokes about it. Is it the Middle finger? Either way I'm sure you think of a way to joke about it with her---c'mon she is so open about talking about sex. I'm sure you can think of a way fingers relate to that.
3. If nothing else, tell her you broke it because you play rough.

I would definetly make a move on her in some way after 2 semesters.
 

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Man are you seriously using something like a finger splint from holding you back! You serious!?

About a year ago i got beaten the **** out of by some punks and ended up with scars all over my face. One really bad one next to my jaw (i put a bandaid on it for about a month coz it looked real bad) but man if anything it helped me more. Girls were asking me whats up, i was just like 'yeh i got into a little bit of trouble'. I ended up getting together with my ex during that period too. Like the other guy said it shows you got that side to you. So come on dude enough with the gay talk!
 
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