Damaged or Normal

[logicallefty]

Been helping one of my life long best friends deal with his wife's inappropriate behavior with a man she works with. Progress is slow but I think the red pill is slowly sliding down his throat after he hacked her phone and read some text messages. There is noone else in the entire world I would love to see swallow the red pill more than him. Hate what his wife is doing to him, but so happy he is finally getting it after 41 years..

Along the way we started talking about me. The guy who treated his first wife like a queen and then had her leave him less than a year after the first kid. The guy who married a woman who he later found out had two other husbands and was a bigamist. I have at least a dozen more stories of my trials and travels with women, but these are the main ones.

My friend mentioned that I was jaded and damaged.. He said his wife reallly doesn't like him talking to me anymore! :crackup: God forbid I help him see right to her bullsh|t.. God forbid that...

Anyhoot, in one matrix, I most certainly am damaged and jaded.. But in another matrix, I'm as realistic as it gets and what I see is becoming "normal". In my mind all women are crazy until proven sane, not the other way around...

Many here in our SS community are in the same category as me. For a lot of us here, it's our core.. So, which are we, are we damaged or are we normal?

When you really think about the whole scenerio in your mind, it's kind of funky.

 

[sodbuster]

We aren't damaged just because we aren't "normal". Women think I'm "bitter" when I call them on their **** {they work for me, or I wouldn't bother}. Just society {feminist} trying to stick a square peg in a round hole for THEIR benefit.

 

[guru1000]

So, which are we, are we damaged or are we normal?

Normalcy simply means you are an unconscious slave to social conventions a/k/a social contrivances a/k/a to what society deems "normal." Every century, social constructs change, and so "normalcy" follows. So why choose the mutable social normalcy?

YOU define your excellence by being "extra-ordinary"--by having an enfranchised thought process, thinking and acting the way YOU pragmatically elect, unencumbered by social constructs and indoctrination.

If I am doing the same thing everyone else is doing, then I will get to the same destination. I choose to transcend normalcy. I choose extraordinary instead. And any acts that I commit that abrogate this notion of social "normalcy," is an act that I may consider. Diametrically, most acts of social normalcy I refrain from unless its abrogation causes unequivocal direct or incidental damage to myself or others.

 

[zekko]

3. Be a red pill male that learned the hard way, has some damage, and is equipped to not make the BIG mistake again and can secure quality pvssy regularly.

I think there's another category between 3 and 4. I don't think that being red pill necessarily means that you can "secure quality pvssy regularly". I think there are many red pill men on this forum who still struggle with attracting women.

In other words, I don't think being red pill automatically makes you charming or good with women. For some, contemplating women's true nature can even discourage healthy interactions with them, especially early on.

 

[Desdinova]

We aren't normal according to society because we don't lie to ourselves. I think we're genuine. We're truthful to ourselves, we don't let ourselves be taken advantage of, and we're constantly trying to improve our own situations to make the best of our own lives.

Being "normal" is fulfilling the expectations that society has put upon us; looking our best to impress others, letting women get their own way, and following whatever trend is currently popular.

Personally, I'm much happier creating my own world where I live up to my own expectations. It saves me money, frustration, stress, heartache, sadness, and even depression.

 

[WanderingMan]

I think there's another category between 3 and 4. I don't think that being red pill necessarily means that you can "secure quality pvssy regularly". I think there are many red pill men on this forum who still struggle with attracting women.

In other words, I don't think being red pill automatically makes you charming or good with women. For some, contemplating women's true nature can even discourage healthy interactions with them, especially early on.

I agree with this, and there's something to be said about knowing vs. doing. It's one thing to have taken the red pill but it's another to actually walk that red pill path.

And, like in the matrix, just because someone's unplugged, it doesn't mean they can all fly like Neo.

 

[Bible_Belt]

If our goods had never been damaged in any way, then we wouldn't have ended up on sosuave.