dam she didnt grant me my fantasy of doing it at work

[bfl]

Man today my girl was closing(she never ever closes so this would be my only chance) so i thought that my fantasie of having sex at work would finally be granted to me.

So i told her about it earlier on the day and she said that thats nice for me to let her know what my fantasie is , well what on of them is but she said no, yet it was with a smile so i thought there was still hope.

So finally when everybody left she told me lets go i gotta close thats when i told her to stay and for us to go to the back, and she said "hell now you crazy?! " that really got me upset, not the fact that she said no but the way she said , wit the rudness and screaming, i just got up and left without saying a word.

Then in the car we talked for a few about it and she said that she just aint gonna do it, but then thats how it is with everything she never wants to do what i want to do everything gotta be her way, she is greedy , selfish and careless about me who she supposly "loves" .


wat yall think about this though?
the part that got me "mad" was the way that she said "hell no are u crazy?!" i mean that got me.

 

[diablo]

wat yall think about this though?

Sounds like you're still being AFC-ish.

but then thats how it is with everything... she never wants to do what i want to do; everything's got to be her way, she is greedy , selfish and careless about me who she supposly loves

Why are you letting her run all over you? Stand up for yourself - obviously you aren't doing a good enough job if "everything has to be her way". You're a man, start acting like it! First off, she disrespected you by screaming at you like you say she did. I'm not one of those uber-macho guys who says "NEVER TOLERATE ANY DISRESPECT IN ANY FORM FROM ANYONE", but this seems to have crossed a line... if nothing else, she should have just been like "nahhh". On a side note, this is a very depressing thread. I don't see the point in it... it's one thing to come in here with a sob story and ask for advice that might actually change something or help you get better, but this one has no silver lining at all. About the only advice I could offer you would be to stop being needy and start asserting yourself in your relationship... because from what you've said, she's wearing the pants...

By the way, there weren't any cameras at her workplace were there?

 

[whistler]

Talk to her like an adult, and like she's a child. Be calm, and tell to say things in a way that make sense. And just be silent but give her a calm but confused glance if she continues to ramble on hysterically.

She may just be too immature to continue bothering with.

 

[bfl]

nah hell naw that kitchen aint got no cameras, plus i said to go to the back anyhow.

and yes she is immature a lotta people has tole me that already, she acts like a little 5 yr ole girl and acts like it too, thats another thing, i dont know why she acts so immature and childish.

But again thats what pissed me off the "hell no!!Are u crazy?!!"

normally i would had went off on her but i didnt, i controlled myself cause me i get angry very easily, (i think i got an anger problem no lie) and im trying to work on it.

 

[Donald Kaufman]

she acts like a little 5 yr ole girl and acts like it too, thats another thing, i dont know why she acts so immature and childish.

Because she uses it to get a BF that will do her bidding. If someone proved that wearing a child's birthday party hat would allow you to have unlimited access to BJs you would be wearing it right now.

People will live with a little humiliation to get what they want. After a while it isn't even humiliating, the hat will get you salivating like pavlovian dogs.

 

[MrHarris]

Well sorry that she doesn't share in YOUR fantasy. And I'm sorry the thought of her getting caught and fired to unemployeement just doesn't float YOUR boat. And it's really a shame that being a low life and fawking at work doesn't turn her on for YOU.

Get rid of her then. Since she seems to have some morals. The nerve of her, not wanting to shyt where she works and collects money to support herself.

Some people just don't get it.


You seem kind of sensitive. Have you always been this way?

 

[DeathDealer]

WHat is this little dog or 5 year old girl thing? This is stupid.

Hello? She cares about her job and workplace, WHY DON'T YOU bring her to your workplace for a little hanky panky.

Seems like you're the one being selfish, greedy, and childish.

 

[baracus]

I'm surprised. She let me bend her over at work. Maybe you're just not packing the inches that I am.

 

[bfl]

lol^^

come on now she was in charge for the night and she was the one closing, after she closes the door noone can go in there unleast its an emergency and some resident needs some to eat(its a retirement place).

we work at the same place, its not a carreer she is going to school to be a pharmacist, and ima start going to school this summer for computer programming.


I mean if she had a wild fantasy i wouldnt mind to grant it to her, i guess that im too much of a freak, let me remind yall that i eat both wholes while sex , and im down for anything , even fukin in public as long police aint around.


(lol ok may be this last facts werent to be shared )

 

[alphawolfx]

um... obviously she's just not very comforable with you yet...

THAT or she has issues OR she doesn't want to do that

you can't just mention your fantasy to her and expect her to be up for it

next time, just try turning her on (words, light touches throughout the day, etc.)

sometimes you'll get your fantasy sometimes you won't

as for this situation, act like it was just a joke, and she actually believed it

 

[bfl]

^^ yeah thats how i started it , as a joke earlier in the day and she actually seemed like she thought it was a joke, but later at closing time thats when i told her again but it was serious she also knew that it was for real.

we've been together for 4 months is gonna make next week, and like i said in another thread, she has gone down on me too although it took me a long time to get her to and now she has backed up from doing that , we talked about it and she said that she will still do it but not all the time. the problem's that it aint even good, she just sucks on it with her mouth up on down but no handjob while she is at it so whats the point? i try to tell her how to do it but she doesnt want to do it that way.

im gettin very frustrated with this girl too...

 

[TizZle]

How Old is this girl?

 

[A&F Brand Cologne]

you keep making these threads about your girlfriend. from what I can tell I and the majority of the other people on this board think that she is immature, irritating, and not worth bothering with.

but I don't think I'm the only one who thinks that you're exactly the same way as her. frankly you both should be single.

 

[bfl]

lol ok then

 

[christz]

oh yah see i got this problem to.. with this girl i just started getting to know i told her one of my fantasies was to bend her over and give it to her hard in front of our boss..

and when i asked if she would she got all pissed and me and said no.

WTF can somebody translate this ********? why is she being so selfish! i mean.. i don't care about my job she shouldn't either WTF!!!!!!!!!

should i up the kino? or the C+F i mean what i REALLY wanna bang her in front of our boss!