"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Daddy Issues

SgtSplacker

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I never really understood what daddy issues was all about. Just never had some female open up about that kinda stuff to me I guess. Was on here the other day in a daddy issues thread and I think I understand what it's all about now.

I think it's all about how a woman sees a man. Your affectionate and that means all you want is sex. You buy her a gift and it's all about your finally did something Nice. You want to hang out with your friends your either a fag or looser. Everything gets a negative spin no matter what. And that comes from a deep distrust that begins with the father figure figure not doing it right. Nothing you do can have noble intentions. Despite the fact you never did earn this treatment.

I though it was all about the girl I'm seeing being a lesbian before she meet me. It runs deeper than that. She was a lesbian because her father was a drunk alcoholic loser that made her lose faith in men.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girls with daddy issues tend to be mental but there also tend to be benefits (they tend to be slvtty and wild, which is fun)
 

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I never really understood what daddy issues was all about. Just never had some female open up about that kinda stuff to me I guess. Was on here the other day in a daddy issues thread and I think I understand what it's all about now.

I think it's all about how a woman sees a man. Your affectionate and that means all you want is sex. You buy her a gift and it's all about your finally did something Nice. You want to hang out with your friends your either a fag or looser. Everything gets a negative spin no matter what. And that comes from a deep distrust that begins with the father figure figure not doing it right. Nothing you do can have noble intentions. Despite the fact you never did earn this treatment.

I though it was all about the girl I'm seeing being a lesbian before she meet me. It runs deeper than that. She was a lesbian because her father was a drunk alcoholic loser that made her lose faith in men.
I would say this is accurate. It's generally distrust which creates drama.
 
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