"Daddy issues" is a slang term used to refer to a female child idealizing her father to the point of sexual desire.
It includes:
1) Penis envy.
2) Wanting to get rid of the mother.
3) Wanting to become impregnated by the father.
4) Having rebellious sex and/or relationships with much older men.
5) Needing a strong male to validate them.
Issue 5 is where we need to focus. As DJ's we always provide a strong male figure. It's especially important to sense if your girl has daddy issues and if she does, not to abandon her after the relationship (which will likely end). We should remain a person she can look up to for years (unless she is BPD which you should have screened out already).
This is what some refer to as "leave her better than you found her" which I think is especially important for those wounded by others in the past.
Not all women with daddy issues are bad, and happening upon an Issue 4 can be mind-blowing.
More here.
It includes:
1) Penis envy.
2) Wanting to get rid of the mother.
3) Wanting to become impregnated by the father.
4) Having rebellious sex and/or relationships with much older men.
5) Needing a strong male to validate them.
Issue 5 is where we need to focus. As DJ's we always provide a strong male figure. It's especially important to sense if your girl has daddy issues and if she does, not to abandon her after the relationship (which will likely end). We should remain a person she can look up to for years (unless she is BPD which you should have screened out already).
This is what some refer to as "leave her better than you found her" which I think is especially important for those wounded by others in the past.
Not all women with daddy issues are bad, and happening upon an Issue 4 can be mind-blowing.
More here.