Dad being DonJuan but how!?

[ReT]

I've always wondered how my father is so good at just walking up to any total stranger and talking to them! Now it leads me to believe he's just a good socalist however you would say it.. Well I particulary noticed he walks up to woman that he's interested in, and sparks up a conversation, then he immediatly begins telling his life story, I'm like WTF!? That he's a Single Father who has raised 2 kids on his own, so he's a Mr.Mom. Well it seems this works for him lol...

My question to you is; how do you get the balls or just get that way to walk up to people, woman etc.. and start talking? I duno, I've made comments to cashiers an **** or people near me, but nothing like he does. It seems everyone likes him due to this personality, plus he's quite funny. I did notice though, he always says to me he doesn't want to get involved with a woman and yaps about how they're the devil and will take all your money etc.. lol. Yet he still picks them up like flys.. They even constantly call him, he just pushes them away. How do I become like this? He says he really doesn't know how to explain it, but just to watch. My dad is 49 years old, has like no grey hair, he's still a good looking guy.

I also feel like his bad ways have rubbed off on me. Since I were young, all I heard about how woman can screw you over and make you pay for the rest of your life. Now I'm 19 I'm trying to become more social and date some woman, but yet my outlook is bad...

What do you guys think? It's 6am, I'm half drunk 8^)

- ReT

 

[libre]

Young man

What's the matter with you as you are drunk at 6 am? Come on, get a grip! If you make a habit of this, you will go down a miserable path in your life.

As for your father, watch and learn from the master. He's got quite the great approach with women. As for his rants against them, just be wary to choose to correct information from him. Like all children which make their own paths in life, you do not have to adopt his attitudes.

With any woman, treat her respecfully, but get the same from her. Be prudent in any relationship as you will not know what life will bring. Do not get in a position where a woman might strip you of your assets if for any reason you part ways. Insist that your life partner pay her own way and that she share in the expenses. Do not work your ass off so that you can give her a lifestyle to which she will get to feel entitled to. If you do, you will be putting yourself in a dire straight when you part ways.

Good luck you man, and for your own good do sober up.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

He's obviously confident and proud of his accomplishment of being a successful single dad. Proud enough to use it as an opening. If it works for him, why fight his success? Learn from it.

 

[spider_007]

First of all I always found cashiers, not wery social. Last thing they really want to do it talk to another person. Especially when they have a long line and their boss is watching them from the customer service desk. (my experience anyway) The best way to get your self to talk to other pepole is WORK. Yes work. It is due to work and being forced to ask questions (or explain my acctions ) that I was able to grow some balls to talk to just about anybody...

Second thing. Instead of blaming woman for the things they do, why not try to understand why they do it, and learn to take advatage of it.... learn to love them for being "WEMEN" Since the begining of human kind, woman have been looking for the leaders the pack (we all know that). They've been looking for providers. Some one to take care of them, and make teir lives a little more easy. It is the way nature is. Man provide for their wife and children; shalter, safety, and all other means of living. While woman raise the childern, feed them and her husband. And even tho many woman in this day and age work. they still have the same instinct they had for the thousands of years..... Just yesturday i was watching "60 minutes" and they had these profesional wemen, who ware the PICK OF THE CROP. I think one of them even graduated from YALE. And they all quit to be mothers. They couldn't really explain why they did it, they just said that they felt like being mothers and raising and knowing their childern...... So haw do you take addvantage of all that. Well, be the man. Develop the right attitude toward life and woman....Be the leaders. IF YOU ARE THE TRUE LEADER, THEN YOU WILL HAVE THE MONEY AND POWER TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR WOMAN AND YOUR CHILDREN. And once you reech that point, then you can have your pick. And pick THE QUALITY WOMAN THAT YOU WANT.... not what is left over.

 

[ReT]

lol, I know I shouldn't be drinking, It was just a boring sunday, and I was trying to spice up BattleField2. I do work btw. But yeah, I still need some adjusting to get more social I guess? Where I live it's quite boring, their's nothing but a mall, lots of stores around me, but yet nothing to do for someone my age. I really don't find it fun to just go to stores to pickup chicks and learn to socialize. I gather I should hang around my father more often and see what he does.