"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dustin

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Do you girls like it when guys come up on them when there in a group of other girls fas dancing lol. cause thats what most girls do cause no guys usualy fast dnce...I gotta know casue if so That's what i'll be doing.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's all in the approach. Girls don't mind if you would like to "dacne" with them even if they are in a group.
 

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awlroighty than!

I played the uncooth spy last night at the club. I was the anti-drug soldier so I wasn't going to wimp out and abandon my post and leave without a watchful eye to protect the ladies. I got to watch ladies and guys all over the dance floor.

I saw people puking before they even got to the floor, and the girls avoiding the man like he was the plague. Same happened to the guy who danced like he was a nut job. It also happened to the guy who dropped his drink and smashed his glass who came of as clumsy.

When a guy introduces himself on the dance floor. He must introduce himself properly.

Being a dancer is a language. It entails more than simply dancing. Simply dancing is simply showing off. Dancing fast and without control is showing off, showing off that you do not want to learn to dance, and that your body is only good for a bit of floppy fun.

Thing is dancing fast is not useful for anything except for cardiovascular exercise. So women don't find your patronizing them with your ability to exercise her without any chance of entertainment...

Dancing is a language. That is the key of this post. What you can do on the floor, shows what you can do off the floor if you can speak apporpriately.

There ARE ways to be a LOUD dancer. Unless you can hold the attention though, your only going to be drawing attention to your flaws. So FAST dancing is not the way to go if your only goal is to be different.

Being different is all about being different. Being cool is all about being cool. Being attractive is all about being attractive. For people to really notice you on the floor, you've got to combine qualities and stick to principles...

I wish I could speak to you from a high school point of view, or to yourself directly, but I have still yet to learn that lesson. I want somebody out there to teach me. Preferably YOU.

Read the PM that I sent you last week. It's a button at the bottom of the main page. click here for main page. It's usually black and says private messages. Help me help you:)
 
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