"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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D1ck size plays a role in cold approaching

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Atom Smasher said:
The girls we are used to gaming are going to display behaviors and attitudes that are different from other groups. They'll always look eventually, but there really are lots of women who don't place lots of importance on that. The numbers are dwindling faster than Hugh Hefner's frequency of erections, but there are definitely women out there whose priorites are in a different place.
I don't think it has anything to do with priorities, it's just human nature.
Girls are going to be curious about what you have down there.
Males and females are interested in each other's parts.

Of course, if she doesn't find you attractive on some level, she probably isn't going to want to look.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Iceberg said:
And this gives me an opportunity to post a question to you...

Do you seriously believe that a pill can make a human body part larger? And if that were the case, don't you think it would be bigger news than rumors spread around your high school?
Extenze, Vimax. Which ones actually work?

There was a report some months ago that Extenze legally had to refund all customers who asked because they found that the effects only lasted as long as the the people were still taking the supplement.
 

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AtomSmasher said:
I think a lot of the disparities on this forum come down to club game versus day game, and looking for a quick lay versus finding a girlfriend to enjoy a relationship with.
I would agree with this. Sticking a cucumber down your pants might help at the club -- but you likely would scare away a woman who was considering any genuine relationship, lol.

I'm average size, not small, and I have my moments, lol, but genuinely I've never felt this mattered too much to the chicks I've been with. I mean I have standard decent gear and there's nothing wrong with my pipes -- hah; but yeah I've seen my crotch glanced at before (and not in a time when I was proud of it -- ie, no stimulation, sitting, I caught her glancing lol, but it was a sort of George Costanza sort of situation where I wish she'd have picked a better time! Hah).

Penis size can ebb and flow depending on the blood movement!

Atom Smasher, maybe your invention would be good for getting a dude with erectile problems "loosened up".

I guess you have to say okay: What is most important to you in a woman or in a relationship? Breast size? Specific Personality Characteristics? I know for myself her breast size ISNT that important! If I am attracted to her, and she is fit, or has a nice ass, those are all plenty to get me moving downstairs -- and if her personality is rocking even more so. I am sure some women are the same. But sure -- would nice beautiful breasts ever offend me? hah -- no -- and likely a large dong wouldn't be a negative stroke for any woman (no pun intended).

There are probably chicks who stay with dudes out of the size of their d!ck alone.

There are probably chicks too who don't see that as big of a deal.

Just my thoughts -- lol, very interesting thread
 

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I know some guys who are very tall, big guys. They have an imposing presence because of their size, makes them look naturally dominant, and like they could definitely take care of business if they had to. I'm muscular, but I'm still only average height. These guys have a huge frame, I can't match their imposing presence, it's almost like they're a different species. About all I can do is ignore it and plow through.

I notice whenever these guys come around the girls tend to act more animated and get more giggly. There's no question they respond to their physical presence.

Aside from the natural dominance these guys project, I wonder if these girls are thinking that these guys must have big penises too? To go with their big proportions. I'm thinking it must be the combination of those two things that make them naturally attractive.

On the other hand, I know some big tall guys who aren't attractive to women because they're too goofy or socially inept. So they have to have some personality and charisma too.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Zekko:

I think with the physically big guys it is more the dominance thing than the perceived size of his tool. (Although I don't discount that at all.). I had a petite female friend tell me she likes how a big guy can throw her around in the bedroom.

I agree with everything else you posted here except for one thing: women are less visual than men. While that is a theory that is often mentioned in the Community, it flies in the face of our experience that "Women notice everything."

I mean we know women notice your shoes and virtually any clothing item you wear. They also notice subtle details of your grooming, hair and muscles (or lack thereof), skin complexion, and everything else you can possibly think of. On the other hand, what do men notice? She was well dressed and had big boobs. All in all, I think women are more visual than men. So I'm not surprised that they check out your junk.

I agree with Atomsmasher that the girl in the bookstore might not check out your crotch, but rest assured she has analyzed the rest of your looks thoroughly, even if she is a relationship type.
 

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backseatjuan said:
I'm able to bring any woman, unless she has fat legs, to orgasm and put her butt to sleep.
Bullpoo, women do not fall asleep after sex. It is only males who fall asleep because of the workout we get and the chemicals released inside our bodies.
Women release oxytocin--also known as the bonding chemical--after they orgasm. This is the same chemical mothers experience when giving birth, which results in an emotional bond with the child. Even mothers most other species go nuts when someone gets too close to their offspring. This is why women want to cuddle and be lovey dovey as opposed to going to sleep after sex.

Get your facts straight before trolling.
 

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wont the crotch stuffers be outed when the women greedily go for the goods
imagine being the guy who went clubbing and stuffed a sock, salami, roll of coins etc only to be the topic of small dck conversation to everyone within in ear shot of her for the next year
 

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Mike32ct said:
I think with the physically big guys it is more the dominance thing than the perceived size of his tool. (Although I don't discount that at all.). I had a petite female friend tell me she likes how a big guy can throw her around in the bedroom.
Well, you don't have to be that big to throw a girl around the bedroom. I suppose if the guy is bigger it's more implictly implied.

Ever notice very short, tiny women, and they end up marrying some huge tall guy? You'd think a shorter woman would go for a shorter guy, but no they want the big guy. Maybe since she is smaller, she feels more of a need to have a strong man around to protect her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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zekko said:
Well, you don't have to be that big to throw a girl around the bedroom. I suppose if the guy is bigger it's more implictly implied.

Agree


Ever notice very short, tiny women, and they end up marrying some huge tall guy? You'd think a shorter woman would go for a shorter guy, but no they want the big guy. Maybe since she is smaller, she feels more of a need to have a strong man around to protect her.
Absolutely correct.
 

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Robyn923b said:
Bullpoo, women do not fall asleep after sex. It is only males who fall asleep because of the workout we get and the chemicals released inside our bodies.
Women release oxytocin--also known as the bonding chemical--after they orgasm. This is the same chemical mothers experience when giving birth, which results in an emotional bond with the child. Even mothers most other species go nuts when someone gets too close to their offspring. This is why women want to cuddle and be lovey dovey as opposed to going to sleep after sex.

Get your facts straight before trolling.
You're right about the chemicals and it making men fall asleep. However there are also women who tend to fall asleep after an orgasm.
 

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Just make sure it's not cold when you're approaching with your d1ck
 

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AlexDP said:
You're right about the chemicals and it making men fall asleep. However there are also women who tend to fall asleep after an orgasm.
If only... That would be the ultimate woman for me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Speaking of penis size as related to body size:

I was watching Big Bang Theory the other day, and Howard and his girlfriend ran into her ex boyfriend. The guy was 6'7". Afterward, there was some discussion over whether "everything was in proportion", which led to some insecurity on Howard's part.
So apparently there is some connection in people's minds about this.
 

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Speaking of Big Bang Theory, I saw another episode where Howard was trying to use peacocking and negs.

He was wearing a bright shirt and an eye patch.
Penny asked him about the eye patch ("Did you get pink eye again?"), so the "peacock" worked.
Then he tossed the neg:
"Penny, only you could look so hot with such greasy hair".
Not so effective.

These PUA techniques look pretty transparent and ridiculous when you see them on the screen, even though yeah these weren't intended to be serious.
 
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